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Is All Fair In Love & War?
I have a question. I met this guy at the gym, we would talk every time we would see each other. He seemed like a really down to earth guy. He finally flirted w me and I said well “maybe you should give me your number”, he gladly took mine and called me to ensure [...]
The Dealbreakers That Keep You Single
Name: Rebecca State: CT Age: 43 Comment: Hi. I am back in the dating pool for the first time after finding out I have HSV-2. Putting myself out there on dating sites feels like false advertising. I’m going to meet up with a really interesting guy for the first time next week who has no [...]
What’s Your Dating Timetable?
Here’s another question from our He Said/She Said event the other night. Ladies, do you have a timetable in your mind on how long you want to date before you move in or get married? I think there are a lot of factors involved with this like age, relationship goals AND relationship history. If [...]
Dating Potpourri: Why Don’t Men……?
At our He Said/She Said event the other night, we got a ton f interesting questions. I’m going to post a few of them here. Why don’t men try to learn an activity that would impress a woman like ballroom dancing or salsa so they could enjoy them together? My answer was: Men don’t take [...]
On OK Cupid, Nobody Can Hear You Scream
Name: Lindsey State: WA Age: 27 Comment: I recently moved to a new city and decided to join Match to meet some singles in my area. I’ve been having difficulty meeting guys out, I usually hang out with a bunch of couples and none of them ever want to separate to play wingwoman. Whenever I [...]
Are You Really Prepared for a Relationship?
Last week we were talking about a 36 year old man who had never had a relationship that lasted more than 6 months. A few women said that that was a major red flag. Which is understandable But let’s do a little critical thinking. What if he had had a relationship that lasted 3 years, [...]
ONLINE DATING
How To Succeed In Online Dating Without Really Trying
I’m sure many of you have read the latest study about online dating. I’m frequently asked to write people’s online dating profiles for them. I always tell them that I won’t do that. Not because I can’t or don’t want to but because I truly believe that what someone says in that About Me space [...]
The Search For Casual Sex
I spent about an hour and a half today reviewing profiles of both men and women on OKCupid. Today’s search was a little different. I did a search strictly for men and women who select “casual sex” as a dating option. I’ve done sessions with people who are getting back in to the dating scene. [...]
Should You Give A Bad Dater A Second Chance?
Name: Michelle State: Brooklyn Age: 41 Comment: Had a date with a guy two weeks ago. Everything seemed to go well. We spent about 4 hours together and had a great time. At the end of the date we talked about seeing a movie we had discussed. The next day I sent him a text [...]
SEX & SEXUALITY
Is All Fair In Love & War?
I have a question. I met this guy at the gym, we would talk every time we would see each other. He seemed like a really down to earth guy. He finally flirted w me and I said well “maybe you should give me your number”, he gladly took mine and called me to ensure [...]
The Dealbreakers That Keep You Single
Name: Rebecca State: CT Age: 43 Comment: Hi. I am back in the dating pool for the first time after finding out I have HSV-2. Putting myself out there on dating sites feels like false advertising. I’m going to meet up with a really interesting guy for the first time next week who has no [...]
What’s Your Dating Timetable?
Here’s another question from our He Said/She Said event the other night. Ladies, do you have a timetable in your mind on how long you want to date before you move in or get married? I think there are a lot of factors involved with this like age, relationship goals AND relationship history. If [...]
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