One thing than no one has touched on is sex drives. Mine has gone up with age and I find this to be true of most of my female friends (except for those who never cared for sex in the first place). We’ve also found that men have lower drives as they age. I have a question for the guys who date younger: do you find this to be true? And do you find your sex drive to be an issue with these women who might be used to twenty and thirty something men who want to do it all night? I know about viagra but the desire has to be there for it to work. (I’m not trying to be combative, I’m really curious as this is never discussed!). – Marshmallow
I don’t know if it’s true that men’s sex drives decrease due to age. I don’t think age has as much to do with it as does lifestyle. I mentioned in a post once that one of the main reasons I didn’t date men in a few certain career fields is because much of their job involves either very long work hours, higher than average stress as well as a lot of client coddling. And by that I mean drinking. That, more than anything else, is the main reason I never dated or could stay with someone who was a heavy drinker. Furthermore, I’m also wary of men who use anti-depressants or other medications. Why? Because all of those things affect both their sex drive and their ability to get and maintain an erection.
We’ve also found that men have lower drives as they age.
This possibly might just be another myth created by women to help them soothe their egos because they’ve been rejected. It could be that their sex drive has decreased. I’m sure age does have some affect. But it could also be that these men just didn’t want to have sex with you and your friends because y’all were older.
I know about viagra but the desire has to be there for it to work.
I don’t think that’s how viagra works. Anyone have an answer to this?
And do you find your sex drive to be an issue with these women who might be used to twenty and thirty something men who want to do it all night?
But were those women happy with that amount of sex? Sure, it’s a great ego boost. But who really wants to have sex “all night?” Yeah, in a new relationship you’re all over each other and waking up in the middle of the night or going at it in the kitchen while you’re cooking (so I’ve heard). But that eventually tapers off, doesn’t it?