Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Bobbie
I have been dating a guy for 8 years now and I have recently busted him in several lies. Last year I was taking care of some personal family business which required me to travel back to my home town frequently. Everything finally came to a head and I handled everything that I needed to with my family situation. So, I decided to come home early and when I did my partners phone was ringing and he was acting like it wasn’t. So, I asked him WHY not answer you phone. He finally answered his phone and behold he had been speaking with a co-worker for months about her personal problems with her daughter. Never providing support to me with the situation that I was dealing with regarding my own family. Then our neighbor next door was having issues with the women he was dating and he would come over and confide in us about issues he was having with his girlfriend. Come to find out my partner was reaching out to the ex-girl friend next door asking for her phone number and apologizing to
her for what happened like he was unaware of what was going on. My partner already knew because our neighbor was confiding in us.
Then I had been looking in my partners phone and notice that he has been looking at several porn sites as well as pick up artist sites. Sites that shows him how to pick up women from night clubs and bars as well. He has also been getting on blogs and different site looking up women and how to get with women. I am at the point that I do not trust him at all and I am at the point that I do not like him. But it still hurts me very much that I have wasted 8 years of my life with this man. I am not in love with him and I know I need to move on with my life. I need advise for someone to tell me what is going on with my partner. HELP ME….
You know what’s going on with your partner. He’s being dishonest. I could specify how and why but you already did that.
Unless you want to spend the rest of your life checking his phone or wondering where he is, cut him loose. If you stick this out, you were destroy yourself and your self-esteem.
I have very little else to say to this. The answer is obvious.