Sheena does not disappoint.
I’d like to disclaim I really don’t care about this hookup at all. I don’t care that he doesn’t like me. I don’t care that he’s emotionally avoidant because he broke up with an ex recently. (I don’t know why he didn’t speak to me after our rendezvous, but that would be my best guess.) I wouldn’t care if he wanted to change things up and go on a date tomorrow. That would be cool, too. I’m a pretty laid-back chick.
Yes. He didn’t speak to you after fucking you because he’s emotionally closed off. I’m sure it has nothing to do with the fact that this woman is a hot mess of crazy.
Let us go through all the post-hookup steps you should take post-hookup to respectfully let your girl know you just want to be casual:
1. Stick around and chat. Maybe have some breakfast.
2. Send your hookup a follow-up text.
3. When you do, let her know it’s OK to leave one or two things at your place.
4. And then, text her again in a couple of days.
All of these are ridiculous You know it. I know it. Basically her advice to men is to treat the woman they casually hook up with like girlfriends or woman that they’re dating. Sheena wants men to do things that will allow her to a) think that they’re dating and b) tell people they’re dating. That last one is key.
The thing with Sheena (and this is a trait we share) is that she radiates “unavailable.” I’m not sure she really wants a boyfriend. A real relationship, I think, would scare the pants off of her. That’s why I think she goes for these guys that pick her up in bars, take her home, fuck her, and then leave. She doesn’t want a deeper connection of a relationship, but she does want the attention a real relationship would provide. And I SO get that.