If He Has to Travel To Get Laid He’s a Loser

January 11th, 2017

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Sheesh! After reading through these comments (which seem so many, but thankfully are just a drop in the bucket of the globe), no wonder dangerous STD’s like HPV strain 16 & 18 are on the rise! The joy of that STD men can’t be tested. It can lead to deadly cervical cancer, and deadly throat cancer in men. Which means it can also be passed through deep kissing. Who the hell really thinks it’s okay to expect a lady to have sex after a few dates? And what the hell kind of lady is stupid enough to put out something that special after a few dates? None of you seem to give a flip about your health, or the health of the future person you will love and marry.

I am 50 next month, and was married for 25 years (he passed away). Married a 2nd time at age 47 to a man who came all the way from England for me. We met on Facebook of all places! I dated two men after my husband’s death, and neither pushed me for sex. Even the one from England who spent a hell of a lot more $$ flying out to see me, than on paying for a meal. He flew out to the USA every 3-4 months to court me for a few weeks. In fact, they both said they’d wait for as long as it took me to feel ready, and made it very clear they were looking at me for marriage. Both had their long-time monogamous exes (20+years) tested for HPV, and gave the results to me, just because they cared. Their exes were very sweet an mature providing that too. Plus they cleared for all the other STD’s early in the game, so neither of us wasted our time investing too much emotional energy into a relationship that had no chance of progressing. To me this is the healthy approach mentally, physically, and emotionally!! If you want sex for fun, get a friend with benefits! If you are out there dating, you are assumed to be looking for a lifetime mate! Ladies and gents ……be selective. Be careful. Don’t play games.

For the record. I love Feffing, and my deceased got it any time any where. My husband now, every night. So it’s not that I am prude, or don’t like sex. I am smart. This thread had to be one of the most depressing ones I have read in months. So sad. -Stephy.


So you’re dating a guy that had to travel thousands of miles to get laid? Thanks for proving my point.

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5 Responses to “If He Has to Travel To Get Laid He’s a Loser”

  1. Bethany Says:

    HPV is pretty much unavoidable if you want to have sex with anyone else who’s ever had sex. So, whatever. Get guardasil if you’re young enough, get pap smears regularly, and use condoms with new partners. It’s not a death sentence and it’s really not the end of the world. Usually clears up on its own.

    You do you, and I’ll do me, Judgey McJudgerson.

  2. Nia Says:

    What the hell kind of lady….?

    The kind who thinks that the restrictive, sexist, and archaic designation of “lady” (vs. the unspoken reverse: tramp) is a word used to shame and control women.

  3. mxf Says:

    Well, I get it. There’s just nothing like a good, proper feffing, complete with written medical testimonials from previous feff partners. Anything else – excuse my French – is a feffing gamble, ladies.

  4. HerGuyFriday Says:

    The word “court” makes me want to vomit.

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