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Article Round Up: What’s Wrong With Men Wanting To Date Slender Women?
May 16, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 25 Comments
Tweet I’ll just leave the link here and let you guys discuss it. http://thoughtcatalog.com/2013/i-went-to-skinny-mini-speed-dating/ I am at a sports bar waiting for “Skinny Mini Speed Dating” to start. I am here “undercover” as a journalist and should be mingling with the men who are here to meet “women under size 8 only,” but instead I [...]
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Signs You’re Dating a Guy With No Options
May 15, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 37 Comments
Tweet Name: Scared Comment: I am with this great boyfriend. He is a hardworking businessman, with a passion for fishing. We live 200 miles apart. He cares for me and spends a lot on buying me stuff. I met him online a couple of years ago, and we got close over the months. Problem was, [...]

He’s Not Shy, He’s Just Not Interested
May 14, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 11 Comments
Tweet Name: AB Comment: Three months ago, I met this guy at his place of employment as a client. We chatted for a long time before getting to why I was there. One month later, I saw him again for a follow up appointment. We chatted for nearly an hour before discussing business. In the [...]

How to Avoid Being Used for Sex
May 13, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 6 Comments
Tweet Name: flyette Comment: I met a guy a few years ago and we immediately liked each other. Circumstances beyond our control separated us but we remained in platonic contact at a distance for months afterwards. At the beginning I think he was genuinely interested in who I was, but then I got the impression [...]

If You Have To Chase Him, He’s Not Interested
May 12, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 27 Comments
Tweet Name: AN Comment: Hi, Five years ago in college, I met a guy who I was very attracted to. He was very shy and quiet and it was hard to get to know him. Throughout the entire time we have known each other, we sent occasional text messages and hung out only a few [...]

Stop Pretending You’re Not Competitive With Other Women
May 10, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 14 Comments
Tweet Name: Lucy Comment: I’m generally slightly flirtatious and am so without even trying. However I know about boundaries and would never have designs on anyone else’s man or chase after anyone who is clearly taken. I find this slightly distressing as on previous occasions, I have been accused of stepping over the line but [...]

Is It Normal To Crush On Someone Else When You’re In a Relationship?
May 9, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 10 Comments
Tweet Name: Laura Comment: So in a relationship, is it normal to fantasizes someone that is real, meaning a friend or coworker that you interact with regularly. Are there certain boundaries or rules to keep in order not to backfire the relationship for you or your partner? Or what kind of fantasy you think it’s [...]
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Upcoming Twitter Chat : Can Casual Sex Lead To A Relationship?
May 11, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 1 Comment
Tweet I’ve decided to organize a weekly Twitter Chat. If you’re on Twitter, all you’ll need to do is log in to your account at the designated time and then hop on over to Tweetchat.com. The hashtag to follow is #atwyschat. That’s how you’ll find us!You can also just create a column in whatever Twitter [...]
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Article Round Up: What’s Wrong With Men Wanting To Date Slender Women?
May 16, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 25 Comments
Tweet I’ll just leave the link here and let you guys discuss it. http://thoughtcatalog.com/2013/i-went-to-skinny-mini-speed-dating/ I am at a sports bar waiting for “Skinny Mini Speed Dating” to start. I am here “undercover” as a journalist and should be mingling with the men who are here to meet “women under size 8 only,” but instead I [...]
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Role/Reboot: Your Time Will Come
May 9, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 1 Comment
Tweet My latest for Role/Reboot: When I was about 9 or 10, I decided that I would be married by age 27. I don’t know where I got that number. It sounded like a good age at the time. At 10 years old, I thought I was supposed to be married and have children before [...]

Role/Reboot: The Don Draper Mystique
May 2, 2013 By Andthatswhyyouresingle Leave a Comment
Tweet Women may be drawn to the Don Draper types, but he’s an illusion. I Dated A Don Draper While out of bed Don was cloaked in mystique, in bed he was completely transparent. Once his clothes were off, his submissiveness shocked me. His moves were tentative and hesitant. While I wouldn’t categorize him [...]
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Is Your Desire For Monogamy Keeping You Single?
August 9, 2011 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 126 Comments
Tweet Name: Anonymous | | Location: Pittsburgh , PA |Question: My ex-boyfriend and I dated for about 7 months (the last 3 months of it, we were exclusive). I am the one who broke it off. This is why: one day, when I went to watch TV at his apartment (which is hooked to his [...]
What Single Women Are Really Up Against Today
October 30, 2011 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 106 Comments
Tweet Name: Lisa State: TX Age: 37 Comment: Hi Moxie & friends, I think I need some perspective here. Situation: Meet guy online, chat a few times. Meet guy in person, have hours of delicious fun sex. Both consistently make plans with each other for sex over summer. Both do not ‘chase’ the other. This [...]

Why Dating 2.0 Scares Men
August 4, 2012 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 91 Comments
Tweet Name: John Age: 45 State:NY Question: My divorce was finalized 12 months ago and now I am online dating for a couple of months. I am not looking for a casual hookup but something with LTR potential. Here is a scenario that happened with a woman I met. She is 45, divorced and has [...]
Poll – Who’s More Responsible If She Gets Hurt?
April 17, 2011 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 77 Comments
Tweet POLL QUESTION: Man and woman date and begin a sexual relationship. After a several dates (more than 5) the woman says she wants their relationship to become exclusive since they are now sleeping together regularly. The man says he does not wish to have an exclusive relationship. She continues to sleep with him regardless. [...]
Landscaping “Down There”
July 13, 2011 By Andthatswhyyouresingle 72 Comments
Tweet Guys watch so much porn these days that they expect perfect landscaping, and some even think “bare down there” is sexy (instead of prepubescent and unnatural looking). I’m currently getting a laser treatment because I got a great deal and I’m sick of dealing with it (plus waxing makes me break out), but yes, [...]


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