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How Do You Date With Anxiety?

September 21st, 2016

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  Name: EmEm : Question: What do men think of nervous women? I have a lot of social anxiety, and a past with trauma and attachment issues. Despite that I’m self-aware and actually pretty easy-going, low maintenance, and fun and interesting to be around. I want to date but find it hard to commence because […]

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Maybe You’re The Problem?

May 27th, 2016

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Name: Red : Question: Hi Moxie, I’ve submitted before and you always deliver. I’m glad to report I’ve calmed down and am feeling a lot better since the last time I wrote in though! I actually have two issues I’d like your thoughts on today. If you want to separate it into separate posts have […]

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What Do You Do If He Tries Too Hard?

May 23rd, 2016

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  Name: Beth : Question: Hi Moxie, you’ve posted a lot recently about the guys who fade, but I was wondering if you could comment on the opposite – the guys who are a bit too enthusiastic and almost pushy when it comes to dating? I have been going out with a guy for the […]

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This Just In: It’s Okay To Not Be Desperate For a Man

April 13th, 2016

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  Name: Lily : Question: Hi there– Long time reader, recently back on the dating scene and just dipping my toe into things again. I met a promising guy online and contacted him, and he was johnny on the spot emailing me back-. We traded emails and then switched to IM for a couple days […]

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Why That Post-Date Thank You Message Is Crucial

September 21st, 2015

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  Name: Scott Age: 30 City: New York State: NY Comment: So I’ve decided to get back on the sauce and once again use a fairly popular, well-known internet dating website that’s free…Yes, I’ve been going out with a few women, with mixed success, and thankfully enjoying the experience for the most part without getting […]

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DATING MYTH: If He Really Likes You, He’ll Make Time For You #atwys

September 7th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): MSJ : Comment: Hi! So, I met this guy a couple of years ago through mutual friends, and then i found him on tinder. I generally use tinder as a confidence boost (oo these hot guys think I’m hot!), but since I recognized this kid I messaged him. […]

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How To Get Past The First Date

September 4th, 2014

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Name: Cheerios Age: 33 State: NY Question: So here’s my latest dating gripe. A guy from an online dating site wrote me and immediately wanted to exchange numbers. I’m down for that since I’m a fan of meeting up as soon as possible to test the chemistry waters. We exchanged two emails, and then spoke […]

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The Most Obnoxious Things People Do On First Dates

May 15th, 2014

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A reader emailed me and suggested that I write up a list of the most annoying things people do on first dates. Some of these are gender specific, so gird your loins. Here goes: 1. Selecting a first date spot that is inconvenient to you, but not them – The best way to avoid this […]

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First Date Protocol: What Do You Do When You’re Not Attracted To Them?

January 11th, 2013

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About 4 months ago I met a guy from OKCupid. I knew the moment he showed up at the bar that I wasn’t attracted to him. I just knew it. This was a rare occurrence for me. In the last 2 years, I have not had one date that didn’t turn into a second/third/fourth/etc date, […]

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If He’s Not Interested, Can You *Make* Him Interested?

December 17th, 2012

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Name: Heather Age: 34 State: California Question: I went on a first date last night that was 30 minutes of small talk and the a 2 1/2 hour movie. The guy looks like a strong contender for me – we have a lot in common, he’s cute, etc… but I got the impression that he […]

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