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Do Any Men & Women Want Traditional Relationships Anymore?

September 12th, 2013

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Name: Bethany Comment: I am 30 years old, never married, with no children. For the past 5 months, I’ve been dating a recently divorced man, in his early forties, also with no children. We do not live together, and I stay at his place about 4 nights a week. Now, my boyfriend tells me he […]

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Sex & Vulnerability: How Much Is Too Much And What Are The Risks?

March 14th, 2013

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So, this article went up on The Frisky today and my head exploded.   We were fucking, he pulled out of me, and I saw his sperm on my pubic hair. ”You just came inside me?” I said, panicked. “Why didn’t you tell me first?” I hadn’t consented to him doing that. And I wouldn’t have consented […]

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Does She Want Love or Security? (The Ballad of The 40+ Single Woman)

December 12th, 2012

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Name: Maria Age: 40 State: WA Question: Earlier this year, an Asian American actress sued imdb over revealing her age as 40 online. She had been selling herself as 26-32 years old and stopped getting work after the imdb fiasco. You have mentioned that no one looks 10 years younger and are deluded if they […]

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How Far Will A Man Go To Avoid Being The Bad Guy?

September 6th, 2012

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Name: jennifer Age: 29 State: mi Question: I meet a young man in June, we hit it off really well. A few weeks past of us hanging out constantly and so I finally “gave myself to him”. July passed every thing was great, I got pregnant(oops) and lost the baby at 7 weeks. Pretty much […]

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Just The Tip..I Promise

August 5th, 2012

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Condomless sex on the second date is for desperate women with no self respect. – Vox If you really think that not having sex with someone I barely know because I didnt bring a condom is a “stupid” reason, then nothing else I can say will make a difference. – John   Ahhh. Safe sex. […]

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Nothing Says Romance Like Sangria & Plan B

June 20th, 2012

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Hi Moxie: I wanted to tell you a story, not because I have a question but to see what you think.  I met a girl on howaboutwe, she is 25,  Persian (grew up in Iran) and didn’t know European food well. I wrote to her about a Spanish place in my neighborhood and we ended […]

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He Said/ She Said – Porn, Condoms, Cheating & Texting

May 8th, 2012

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Here are three questions from our last He Said/She Said event that should generate some interesting discussion. Why are men so comfortable not wearing condoms? Why do women have to insist on it? I would guess that men prefer bareback for the same reason a woman prefers it – it just feels better.  The sensations […]

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Minding The (Age) Gap

April 26th, 2012

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Name: xyzed State: NY Website: Question: Is there an appropriate age gap when dating someone younger? I met a wonderful woman during a speed dating event and we have been dating exclusively during the past month. During our first conversation she asked what my age was and I was contrite and replied 48 Yr. She […]

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What Would You Do If You Got Pregnant?

April 2nd, 2012

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Here’s an interesting discussion that I had recently with a friend. He was sharing with me that one of his male friends recently learned that his girlfriend of a year and a half was pregnant. This spurred a discussion about birth control and the various types of conversations people tend to have when they begin […]

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Does He Tell Them He’s Been Snipped?

March 19th, 2012

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Name: IA State: MA Age: http: 38 Comment: When do you reveal to a lady that you’ve had a vasectomy?  During my previous marriage, the ex and I agreed to have no kids so ‘snip-snip’.  Unfortunately we divorced 2 years ago and now I am back on the dating scene. I’ve purposely targeted online women […]

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