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He’s Not Being Honest, He’s Being an A**hole

July 26th, 2017

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Name: Jessica : Question: So, I have been casually hanging out with a guy for the past six months, just as friends. There was a mutual attraction between us and we would occasionally make out or engage in foreplay, but also go for dinner, drinks and the movies. I knew that sex had to happen […]

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Is Sexual Exclusivity Really That Important?

July 16th, 2017

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Name: Anonymous |  | Location: Pittsburgh , PA |Question: My ex-boyfriend and I dated for about 7 months (the last 3 months of it, we were exclusive).  I am the one who broke it off. This is why: one day, when I went to watch TV at his apartment (which is hooked to his computer), […]

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Why Sex Talk On a First Date Is a Bad Idea

May 29th, 2017

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  Name: Annie : Question: Dear Moxie, I recently became interested in low key BDSM. I stopped by the sex toy store down the street for me and purchased spreader bars, Ben wa balls, a bed restraint, and a flogger. In the past I’ve been 100% vanilla about sex, but I started to feel bored […]

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Is Dating Broken?

May 22nd, 2017

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I decided last night that we’d no longer organize speeddating events. Ever since Meetup updated their policy and disavowed speeddating events, filling them has been a struggle, never more so than over the last few months.  As I said last week to another woman who organizes speeddating events who has also complained of a slow-down, […]

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Add Stealthing To List of Things Women Have To Worry About

April 25th, 2017

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Here’s an article that addresses something that came up recently on this site. The Growing Movement of Men Who Secretly Remove Condoms During Sex Alexandra Brodsky, a legal fellow at the National Women’s Law Center and author of the study, spoke with a number of people, mostly women, who have experienced nonconsensual condom removal. While […]

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The Best Comment About Being Single EVER

April 20th, 2017

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I’m going out on a limb here and saying that this is – quite possible – THE BEST COMMENT this site has ever received. I’m 34 and have been single for five years (and I’m a woman, if it makes any difference). Even in my twenties, I always found it difficult to get into a […]

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How Does She Find Out If He’s Sleeping Around?

April 6th, 2017

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Name: a Question: Ok So I’ve been through enough long term relationships and break ups, and have been single now long enough to understand that sex with a man does NOT equal Relationship. At this point, I’ll be completely honest, emotionally, I don’t care if the guy I’m sleeping with is sleeping with anyone else, […]

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Spoiler Alert: He Just Wants To Get Laid

January 19th, 2017

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Name: B Age: 38 State: Question: I had a first date with a man from a dating site on Friday evening.  Just drinks at a bar in town.  We had exchanged a few fun emails before arranging the date, so there was lots of laughter and joking at the date, and I thought it was […]

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What Does He Mean When He Says “No Hook Ups!”

November 29th, 2016

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  Name: Nia : Question: I’m somewhat throwing this out to the commentariat and especially the single guys who are doing online dating out there: I’ve been using Tinder on and off–for a short while 3 years ago, and then back on and off now for about 6 months. I noticed that in the last […]

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Did He Really Get a Girlfriend Overnight?

November 21st, 2016

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  Name: KK : Question: Hi, So I wrote to you awhile back about going back on online dating, and have been back on okcupid for about a month. About two weeks ago this guy messaged me on okc and quickly asked for my number.  We texted a lot, which is a mistake I will […]

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