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If They Can’t Commit To A Date, Don’t Bother

October 22nd, 2017

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  Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): sarah Comment: I was asked out for a drink by this guy whom I had previously met at a party. We had kissed at the party and he had indicated he’d like to take me for a drink sometime. He had added me as a Facebook friend […]

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How Does She Reverse The Friends With Benefits Curse?

October 17th, 2017

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  Name: Tami Question: So I’m 21 years old and I truly haven’t had a true “serious” long term relationship or anything. In highschool, I had my first “love” and “boyfriend” and although we only were exclusive for a short period of time, we remained in eachothers lives for many months and years afterwards, casually […]

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Why Won’t He Sleep With Her?

October 11th, 2017

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Name: Erin : Question: Dear Moxie, I am curious to find out your thoughts on men who wait for sex. Two months ago I met a 32-year old guy, and we have been out on six dates. After date #3, I invited him back to my place to use the hot tub, and I told […]

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If He Says He’s Not Looking To Commit, Believe Him

October 1st, 2017

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Name: Jennifer : Question: Hey everyone, I have been seeing a guy for 2 months now. He has stated he doesn’t want anything serious, or at least he doesn’t know because he had just broken up with his girlfriend. However, we have been on 4 dates so far, all including sex. I left for a 3 […]

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Never Try To Trick Men Into Being Exclusive

August 14th, 2017

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  Name: D Comment: I’ve been seeing a woman (let’s call her Jean) for the past month or so. We get together 2-3 times per week, and we’ve been having sex since our third date. I think there’s long-term potential, but I’m not ready to be exclusive yet. In the meantime, I’ve also been dating […]

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Is She Too Sexy To Get a Guy To Commit?

August 10th, 2017

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  Name: Christye Comment: 43, single white female. 5’5″, 180, big chest and behind. Blue eyes, long black hair. Attractive. Smart.Confident. So I have been single for about ten years. Date but nothing that has even come close to looking like a relationship or even the possibility of becoming one. Almost seems I’m the girl […]

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He’s Not Being Honest, He’s Being an A**hole

July 26th, 2017

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Name: Jessica : Question: So, I have been casually hanging out with a guy for the past six months, just as friends. There was a mutual attraction between us and we would occasionally make out or engage in foreplay, but also go for dinner, drinks and the movies. I knew that sex had to happen […]

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Is Sexual Exclusivity Really That Important?

July 16th, 2017

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Name: Anonymous |  | Location: Pittsburgh , PA |Question: My ex-boyfriend and I dated for about 7 months (the last 3 months of it, we were exclusive).  I am the one who broke it off. This is why: one day, when I went to watch TV at his apartment (which is hooked to his computer), […]

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Why Sex Talk On a First Date Is a Bad Idea

May 29th, 2017

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  Name: Annie : Question: Dear Moxie, I recently became interested in low key BDSM. I stopped by the sex toy store down the street for me and purchased spreader bars, Ben wa balls, a bed restraint, and a flogger. In the past I’ve been 100% vanilla about sex, but I started to feel bored […]

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Is Dating Broken?

May 22nd, 2017

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I decided last night that we’d no longer organize speeddating events. Ever since Meetup updated their policy and disavowed speeddating events, filling them has been a struggle, never more so than over the last few months.  As I said last week to another woman who organizes speeddating events who has also complained of a slow-down, […]

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