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Why Using Sex To Get Commitment Will Backfire #atwys

September 14th, 2014

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Tweet Somebody asked me recently why dating advice is so inconsistent. I told them that it was because most dating advice  lacks objectivity. I’ve said this before. Today this popped up in my Twitter stream. Now, I’ve spoken of my regard for Evan in the past. He’s got more passion and authenticity than most folks […]

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What Do You Do When A Guy Bolts After Sex?

September 3rd, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Beth : Comment: Unwittingly allowed myself to be used for sex… What this guy did was utterly despicable. I met him online and we chatted for 2 weeks via text and calls, he seemed really genuine… he said all the right things that is all. We met […]

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If You Use Sex As a Lure, Don’t Be Surprised If That’s All They Want #atwys

July 26th, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): blissix : Comment: I had a profile that had sort of a sexual tone to it, and I connected online with someone that I thought initially was a “player”: attractive, “high value” by Manhattan standards (37, lawyer, tall, athletic and aware of the fact (as he had […]

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Do You Understand Dating Shorthand? #atwys

July 25th, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): SingleGuy : Comment: I’d be interested in feedback on what I should do here. I met a woman at a speed dating event before Christmas. She’s 38, very career-oriented, a finance director, doing an MBA part-time, and has a busy social life. With the holidays and her […]

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Dating Skills 101: Sometimes People Say Things They Don’t Mean #atwys

July 16th, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Dijon99 : Comment: Two years ago a new coworker joined.  I’m single, him married 20+ years. We are expats and his wife lives in our home country. We became really good friends very quickly. We would hang out in a group or just on our own. After […]

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Will a Man Commit To a Woman He’s Just Having Sex With? #atwys

June 16th, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Susie : Comment: Hello, I’m wondering if you can give me some advice. I have a guy friend that I’ve casually dated about 10 years ago and we’ve had sex in the past. We’ve stayed in touch over the years (no sex involved). Now, years later we […]

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Do Men Need To Be Attracted To A Woman To Have Sex With Her? #atwys

June 9th, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Aly Comment: You’ve said in the past that men sometimes will have sex with women they are not attracted to. How do you know if they’re attracted to you or just pretending to be to have sex?  I know people will ask, I guess you could say […]

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If They Wanted To Date You, They’d Be Dating You #atwys

June 8th, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): samantha : Comment: Stuck in an awkward mixed signal battle and I honestly just don’t know what to do! I was dating (occasional sex) with a guy after a bad break up. He made it pretty clear that we couldn’t be anything more than sex buddies as […]

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Spoiler Alert: The “I Get Attached After Sex” Thing Is a Myth #atwys

June 5th, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Confused New Relationship – Am I sleeping with him too soon? : Comment: My most recent conversations with a guy have made me feel that perhaps our interactions have been calculated and that I have misinterpreted idle chat for openness and emotional vulnerability. After just under a […]

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The First Rule of Casual Sex Is You Don’t Talk About Casual Sex #atwys

June 4th, 2014

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Tweet Mandy over at xoJane wrote an interesting article today that I wanted to discuss. From the article: Step 1: Make it clear in your dating profile that you are open to a purely hookup scenario. Mandy is speaking specifically of Tinder, but I assume she means that this disclaimer should be included in any […]

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