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Stop Expecting Men To Pay For Things. SERIOUSLY.

December 7th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): BringHimBack : Comment: Just over 2 years ago, my boyfriend of 7 years (!) up and left me, and quickly married someone else. I am still getting over it, but in the meantime, have met another guy who is very nice, warm and kind. We had been dating […]

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One Reason Not To Make Guys Wait For Sex

December 4th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Unsure : Comment: Hi, I’m a 35 year-old woman dating a 38 year-old man. Over the years, to screen for men who are more serious, I have implemented a “make ‘em wait” policy. On my second date with my current boyfriend, I told him I don’t have sex […]

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Do You Trade Sex For Exclusivity?

November 24th, 2014

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Name: D State: CO Age: 43 Comment: I’ve been seeing a woman (let’s call her Jean) for the past month or so. We get together 2-3 times per week, and we’ve been having sex since our third date. I think there’s long-term potential, but I’m not ready to be exclusive yet. In the meantime, I’ve […]

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Beware The Person Who Is Totally Honest With You

October 28th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Elizabeth : Comment: I met Jake at a speedating event. He definitely left an impression on me as he was both sweet and direct on what he was looking for. He told me he was seeking to get remarried as he has been divorced for three years and […]

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Do You Need Insurance Before You Sleep With A Guy? #atwys

October 9th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Beverly : Comment: I just turned 49. I have been divorced over 10 years but have had relationships, but not longer than a year. I have met a man online dating after many duds over the years. I am so tired of men just wanting sex and not […]

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Use Your Big Girl Words And Ask Him Where Things Are Going #atwys

September 18th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Lala : Comment: I have been seeing a guy for exactly a year now. We have great chemistry but we don’t spend a lot time together. He is a 38’year old divorced father of two girls(18,14) he has a great career,loves football, supports his.mother financially, very laid back […]

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Why Would A Guy Propose This Quickly? #atwys

September 17th, 2014

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As many of you know, I’m a huge advocate of critical thinking and critical analysis. Unfortunately, when it comes to dating, many people aren’t. Take this story. 44 year old woman meets 47 year old guy on Tinder. They date for 6 months and get engaged. Both are divorced, but only he has children. Four […]

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Why Using Sex To Get Commitment Will Backfire #atwys

September 14th, 2014

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Somebody asked me recently why dating advice is so inconsistent. I told them that it was because most dating advice  lacks objectivity. I’ve said this before. Today this popped up in my Twitter stream. Now, I’ve spoken of my regard for Evan in the past. He’s got more passion and authenticity than most folks in […]

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How Realistic Are You When It Comes To Commitment & Marriage? #atwys

July 24th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Inarticulate Nature Boy Comment: I recently got out of a long term relationship that never quite materialized for various reasons.  I feel there were times that one side or the other were committed but I don’t believe we every were ‘all in’ at the same time. We have […]

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Never Assume They’re Not Dating Other People #atwys

June 3rd, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Jessica Comment: I’ve been seeing a guy I met online for 6 months. We see each other with extreme regularity (once a week) and he is always a complete gentleman. We’ve taken to spending pretty much our whole weekends together, every weekend. He showers me with pleasantries and […]

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