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Beware The Man Who Says All The Right Things After 1 Date #atwys

June 1st, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): I’m Messed Up, You’re Amazing, Let’s Be Friends Comment: I met someone online about a month and a half ago. Their message to me was rare in that they clearly were not looking for just a hookup, but genuinely found me interesting. We hit it off and agreed […]

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Signs He’s A Lying Liar Who Lies

May 18th, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Lovefanatic Comment: I am married but seperated. I work at a hospital long hours and most weekends. There was this new extremely good looking doctor that started working there. At first I just figured he was another typical cocky doctor who was self-centered. At first he looked at […]

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Why Are Some People Perpetually Single?

May 7th, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): SingleMan Comment: I am 46 and have been single for over 10 years.  I have done everything; personal ads, meet up groups, volunteer groups, bars, etc., all to no avail.  I don’t know why this is, but I do know that dating gets harder as one gets older. […]

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Dating Red Flag 101: Guys Like This Don’t Exist

March 14th, 2014


The other day I wrote a list of a few important dating realities. One of them was that if someone seems amazing and fantastic and they’re single, there is probably a reason. Of course, some people internalized that one and took offense. Because, see, they think they’re fantastic and amazing and they’re single and there’s […]

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The At-Their-Place Second Date – Good or Bad?

December 16th, 2013


Name: Jackie Question: The other day I went out with a man and despite a 9 year difference in age, we really hit it off!  The next day he asked me out for Sunday and said it was going to be a surprise. I got excited and looked forward to the date. Well here we […]

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Just Because They’re Good Looking Doesn’t Mean They’re Not a Douche

December 4th, 2013


Gather round! It’s another installment of Article Roundup. This one come from The Frisky. “The first thing I noticed was your smile,” he wrote. “A beautiful one like yours stands out from the crowd. Now what kinds of horror stories have you heard by opening yourself up to that question?” He was responding to the […]

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Can You Avoid The Creepy Sexters & Players of Online Dating?

December 2nd, 2013


Name: Kesha Comment: Hello, I am new to the online dating world and after setting up my account, I get lots of hits everyday, but I’m having a problem sifting through the guys that come across as decent and being able to tell if they’re really interested in getting to know me or just interested […]

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What Do You Do When You Catch A Man In A Lie?

October 29th, 2013


Name: Jennifer Comment: I met this guy online and we finally met in person. Our first date was amazing—so much so that he wrote me after our date to tell me he thought I was amazing, that I exceeded all of his expectations and that he can’t wait to see me again. We scheduled our […]

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The Assumptions We Make That Keep Us Single

October 21st, 2013


A conversation with a friend today made me realize that there are assumptions that we sometimes make in the dating process that ultimately become our undoing. Here are some examples: 1. Picking an expensive restaurant or bar at which to meet that cute doctor you met on OKCupid.-  Just because someone works in a  field […]

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What Do You Do When They Don’t Look Like Their Photo? Like, At All?

October 6th, 2013


Name: Anna Comment: Hi Moxie, I have a question that I have to imagine a lot of fellow online daters are wondering: How can you avoid (or at least minimize) going out with people you meet online whom you’re then not attracted to in person? I feel like I have posted completely truthful photos of […]

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