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Why Won’t He Offer To Help Pay Her Bills?

September 24th, 2017

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Name: Nicole : Question: I have been dating a man for almost 2.5 years.  We’ve had two breaks in our relationship that lasted less than 3 weeks.  The question I have is: this man knows I am in a financial strain right now.  I get paid based on commission and when he first met me […]

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How To Make a First Date Super Awkward

August 2nd, 2017

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Name: Skyler : Question: Dear Moxie, I have a money question that may have already been addressed on this site, I am not sure. So last month I met a new guy and he asked me out for drinks. For our first date we went out to a high end bar, and when the bill […]

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Invoicing After Bad Dates: The New Way Men Harass & Stalk Women

June 26th, 2017

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Let’s get one thing straight: the purpose of sending one of these Venmo invoices is not to get the money back. While I believe dolts like this man are stupid to some degree, they can’t be that stupid. These requests are essentially thinly-veiled attempts at extortion, as the person sending it (usually a man) know […]

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Guy Sues Woman For Rejecting Him

May 18th, 2017

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The upside to this frivolous lawsuit is that this loser will be dating his right hand for the foreseeable future. Ooh, he’s all riled up and going to teach her a lesson! What sad excuse for a human being. Now, y’all know that this post – like so many on this site – is going […]

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A Matchmaker And a Misogynist Walk Into a Bar…

April 16th, 2017

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Their matchmaking business sounds like it exclusively caters to the male gaze, matching up rich men with beautiful women not for a relationship but for status. That’s what they’re selling, I think.  Not love. Not companionship. Certainly not marriage. (There’s a reason why there’s no Testimonials page on their website, folks.)  What the Spindels excel […]

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Would You Date Someone Supported By Their Parents?

February 2nd, 2017

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Moxie, I’ve been seeing a woman now for almost 8 months. Just before the holidays she told me that the apartment where she lives is actually owned by her parents and that they pay the mortgage. She covers the monthly fees and the rest of her expenses. Up until this point I was under the […]

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If He Doesn’t Offer To Pay He’s a Loser

January 15th, 2017

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Name: Reality check : Question: I work with television and I went on a date last night with a guy who is a struggling actor. We worked together on a shoot followed by conversations over texts. He asked me out and I met him for a date. We had a nice chilled out time over […]

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Should He Give Up Dating For Good?

December 21st, 2016

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  Name: Paul : Question: I am 34 years old, no children, and recently divorced. My question concerns women’s expectations of their husband’s work hours. I have worked in manufacturing for over 10 years, and have worked my way up the ladder to a very decent paying job, especially considering where I live. Yes, I […]

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Why Did He Let Her Help Pay The Bill?

November 14th, 2016

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Name: Anonymous : Question: So I went on a third date with this guy I like but I have a hard time reading. I cannot say I am totally into him, but I would be interested in one or two more dates to make sure. He suggested a place that was a bit pricey. He […]

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Is He Cheap Or Just Broke?

September 11th, 2016

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Name: Victoria : Question: Hi there,I have an interesting predicament. I’ve been dating a guy for a few months now, and we have probably been out on a total of 5 or 6 dates or so. We have many things in common, we talk for hours and really enjoy each other’s company. However, I have […]

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