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Just Because He Said It Doesn’t Make It True

December 14th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): N : Comment: I have been seeing a guy I met on OkCupid for just over three months. He’s 42, Im 35. Him: a bit of a socially awkward “nerd”, high level science degree, works long hours, bad ADD. In the beginning things progressed rather fast. He suggested […]

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This Is Why You Don’t Let Your Boss Give You A Facial (Yes. THAT Kind)

December 9th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Angel : Comment: ‘Tis the season…so I thought I’d submit a holiday party hookup scenario. Here’s what has gone down: My boss and I are good looking people who sit in the same adjoining space facing each other. We’ve been working together for 4 years and while there […]

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The Social Cues You Miss That Keep You Single

November 28th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Alice : Comment: Hi Moxie, I have been enjoying reading your columns. It’s truly a guideline for me in a relationship. Actually I am about to move on but feel that still something bothers me. I’d like to hear your opinion. I met a guy online. Despite he […]

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Being Able To Get Laid Is Not Proof That You’re Attractive

November 25th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Eggs Benedict Comment: Hey Moxie, So this dude messaged me on OKC last week, and we went on a date the other day. He was quite cute, but I didn’t get a good feeling initially because, when I came up to him, he was like, hi, and continued […]

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Critical Thinking: Why It’s Important If You’re Dating Online

November 23rd, 2014

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On Friday, xoJane published this doozie of an essay called 5 Things I Learned From Going On a Date With A Guy Who’s Missing His Front Teeth. Read the article and then come back. Go ahead. I’ll wait. I’ve said many times that the most crucial skill a single person can hone if they want […]

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How Do You Know If You’re Shooting Out Of Your League?

November 20th, 2014

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Name: AP Age: 38 Story: I haven’t actually seen this covered in your blog, but how do you discern “leagues”? As a woman, how do you determine who is and who isn’t in your league? I’m attractive & very fit by most people’s standards, do well professionally, extroverted/sociable, but I am also in my late […]

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Have Single Women Become Too Aggressive?

November 16th, 2014

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Name: John Age: 45 State:NY Question: My divorce was finalized 12 months ago and now I am online dating for a couple of months. I am not looking for a casual hookup but something with LTR potential. Here is a scenario that happened with a woman I met. She is 45, divorced and has 2 […]

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Things In Your Dating Profile That Are Turning People Off

November 6th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): ulysses20 : Comment: I’m really annoyed with how many women put on their OKcupid profile that sarcasm is something they’re really into. It’s such a turnoff to know that these women enjoy being negative. I can’t understand why someone would advertise their sarcasm. Age: 30 City: NYC State: […]

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How To Write The Best Dating Profile EVAH! – Part 2: Photos & Self-Summaries

October 14th, 2014

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In the first installment of this series we covered the basics: headline, username, basic details, and search criteria. Now let’s tackle the stuff that people really find tricky. THE SELF-SUMMARY/ABOUT ME SECTION At this point in the game, it’s not about who has the most engaging or interesting profile text, it’s about who has the […]

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The Bait Some Men Use Just To Get Laid

October 3rd, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): scibear1231 : Comment: Hi, I feel completely lost with the mixed signals I’m getting. I have been in the process of breaking up/moving out of my 4 year live in relationship for the last two months. During this time, I met a great guy who really seems to […]

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