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How Do You Know If You’re Shooting Out Of Your League?

November 20th, 2014

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Name: AP Age: 38 Story: I haven’t actually seen this covered in your blog, but how do you discern “leagues”? As a woman, how do you determine who is and who isn’t in your league? I’m attractive & very fit by most people’s standards, do well professionally, extroverted/sociable, but I am also in my late […]

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Have Single Women Become Too Aggressive?

November 16th, 2014

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Name: John Age: 45 State:NY Question: My divorce was finalized 12 months ago and now I am online dating for a couple of months. I am not looking for a casual hookup but something with LTR potential. Here is a scenario that happened with a woman I met. She is 45, divorced and has 2 […]

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Things In Your Dating Profile That Are Turning People Off

November 6th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): ulysses20 : Comment: I’m really annoyed with how many women put on their OKcupid profile that sarcasm is something they’re really into. It’s such a turnoff to know that these women enjoy being negative. I can’t understand why someone would advertise their sarcasm. Age: 30 City: NYC State: […]

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How To Write The Best Dating Profile EVAH! – Part 2: Photos & Self-Summaries

October 14th, 2014

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In the first installment of this series we covered the basics: headline, username, basic details, and search criteria. Now let’s tackle the stuff that people really find tricky. THE SELF-SUMMARY/ABOUT ME SECTION At this point in the game, it’s not about who has the most engaging or interesting profile text, it’s about who has the […]

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The Bait Some Men Use Just To Get Laid

October 3rd, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): scibear1231 : Comment: Hi, I feel completely lost with the mixed signals I’m getting. I have been in the process of breaking up/moving out of my 4 year live in relationship for the last two months. During this time, I met a great guy who really seems to […]

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Which Is Worse: His Herpes or His Cheating? #atwys

October 1st, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): AP Comment: I’m curious if you’d recommend to exit or stay in either of these situations. Both happened to me with the same guy: 1) On the 3rd date, he tells me he has Herpes. He does this after a few drinks, even though this date was not […]

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Which Dating Site Is Better: Match or #OkCupid?

September 29th, 2014

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One question I’m always asked in a profile review session is which dating sites I recommend. I’m quite open to my clients that I think Eharmony is a gigantic waste of time at this stage in the dating game. Things move much too quickly now, which means our attention spans and time we’re willing to […]

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Avoid These #OKCupid & #Tinder Idiots #atwys

September 16th, 2014

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The pickings on OKCupid leave a lot to be desired. A lot. We all know this. But there is a certain sub-section of users of that site that you should avoid at all costs. Below, I’m listing out some red flags and WTFuckery that you should keep in mind next time you’re tempted to send […]

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How Can She Avoid Meeting Frat Bros? #atwys

August 25th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): BostonGal : Comment: I recently moved to the Boston area and was looking to meet new guys. Around the time I moved, Tinder because the talk of the town, so, of course, I joined it. After a few flopped dates later, I removed myself from Tinder and tried […]

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Beware The Woman Who Upgrades The Date #atwys

August 18th, 2014

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  Name: John Age: 45 State: NY Question: I will describe the circumstances of my recent first date and then ask a couple of questions. Met a girl online and we exchanged a few emails and phone calls and set up the date. Since I recently moved to her area, I suggested we go to […]

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