Name: EmEm : Question: What do men think of nervous women? I have a lot of social anxiety, and a past with trauma and attachment issues. Despite that I’m self-aware and actually pretty easy-going, low maintenance, and fun and interesting to be around. I want to date but find it hard to commence because […]

  Name: Mark State: New York Age: 37 Comment: Went out with a woman that I met online. She shows up at the restaurant where we agreed to meet and was much heavier than she was in her photos. I made the best of it, had a couple drinks, paid the tab and said goodbye. […]

Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): n_shrimp Comment: this is really long, and i tried to be concise but it’s complicated. please edit as necessary. My first bf from 25 years ago (who i was infatuated with even at 17- he broke my heart then) contacted me in early may on FB. He lives […]

Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): n1982 : Comment: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on an off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it’s never completely receded. I’ve been dating someone whom I adore and dated 25 years ago when I was 18. He came back into the picture and […]

Name: Clarissa Age: 25 City: boston State: massachusetts Comment: I have been in a relationship with this guy for 3 months. We were together before but we broke up. Now we decided to get back together and that our feelings are still there. We tell each other that we love each other and we check […]

Name: Anne Age: 36 State: WA Question: First to give you a little background we meet online last June. He is 46, divorced once (marriage lasted ten years), left by his fiancé a couple weeks before a second marriage would have taken place. Both his first wife and fiancé left him. I’m 38, never married, […]