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Who Has Better Luck Dating Online – Men or Women?

August 17th, 2014


From now until further notice, I’m mostly going to be re-posting popular posts from the past. If a letter comes with a particularly interesting angle, I will post it and write a response. I need a break.  Enjoy! This was originally posted in March of 2012.   Don’t act like the ‘chubby’ girls or the […]

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How Do You Compensate For Your Shortcomings In Your Dating Profile? #atwys

August 14th, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Geoff : Comment: What advice would you give to 50 year olds in the online dating game? I sure hope I don’t have to do the alpha male David Deangelo  cocky-and-funny thing to get women interested in me. And, I also hope that the gals in my target […]

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Stop Over-Analyzing The Fade #atwys

August 13th, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Brianna : Comment: Hello! I am extremely confused by what happened to me recently. I’ve had bad dates, so I know what they’re like. I’ve been rejected before, learnt my lesson and moved on. This most recent story, however, has no answer or lesson yet. I met him […]

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Dating Red Flags: If He Seems Too Perfect, He Probably Is #atwys

August 7th, 2014


Article Roundup! Gather round, chickens! Yesterday, this went up on The Frisky. Here’s an excerpt. Dinner was delicious and the night was going well, so I wasn’t at all surprised when he asked if I wanted to watch a movie, which is usually code for Let’s Take Our Clothes Off. I was prepared for something […]

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Women Over 35: Stop Trying To Prove You’re An Exception To The Rule #atwys

August 6th, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Doodle : Comment: So I just discovered your website a week ago and honestly I think you are a goddess. Anyone that knows me knows I don’t blow smoke, but whatever I am 41. I’ve noticed that you’ve said a lot that women my age won’t get men […]

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Do You Understand Dating Shorthand? #atwys

July 25th, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): SingleGuy : Comment: I’d be interested in feedback on what I should do here. I met a woman at a speed dating event before Christmas. She’s 38, very career-oriented, a finance director, doing an MBA part-time, and has a busy social life. With the holidays and her busy […]

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How Realistic Are You When It Comes To Commitment & Marriage? #atwys

July 24th, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Inarticulate Nature Boy Comment: I recently got out of a long term relationship that never quite materialized for various reasons.  I feel there were times that one side or the other were committed but I don’t believe we every were ‘all in’ at the same time. We have […]

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The Dangers of Making Your Relationship The Center Of Your World #atwys

July 21st, 2014


Mandy over at xoJane wrote a post recently that has incited a shit storm in the comments. I mean, come on. The same way if I post some humblebraggy crap about my career (who is my husband), it is the exact same thing as your smug profile pic in your $50,000 wedding gown making out […]

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Sometimes You Have To Know When To Move On #atwys

July 17th, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Bummed in Atlanta : Comment: So I met this really cute girl (43, no kids, never been married))on Match and we went to an open air concert one Sunday evening and had a wonderful time. We went to a local bar after to continue talking and closed the […]

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How Could He Have Moved On So Quickly? #atwys

July 15th, 2014


Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Nancy Comment: My ex and I were living together and engaged after 5 years. Shortly after the engagement things started to fall apart. We took a wonderful vacation and 2 weeks later on another vacation with his mother and some friends my world fell apart. His mom kicked […]

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