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Why Do Men Say They Want a Relationship If They Don’t?

February 23rd, 2017

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Name: Gracie Question: Dear Moxie, I was wondering what you think about men who include the line “I’m looking for a serious relationship” in their profile. I met a guy on match.com last February and that is what he put in his profile. We’ve been dating for a year now, and the relationship doesn’t feel […]

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Are Tinder, OKCupid, and Bumble a Waste of Time?

February 20th, 2017

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  Name: OKWTF Question: Is OKCupid finished as a dating site?  I reactivated after a two year hiatus and I’ve noticed the site has taken a dramatic downhill turn.  I was using Tinder and Bumble but I didn’t feel those apps gave me enough space to flesh out my personality (and learn more about a […]

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Why Dating Profiles & Social Media Don’t Mix

February 15th, 2017

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  Name: Riley : Question: Hi Moxie. I know you’re not that crazy about using Tinder as an online dating platform; but I am mulling over the idea of returning to it, and I have a quick question. What are your thoughts on giving your snapchat username in your Tinder bio? When I’ve used Tinder […]

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Should She Pretend To Love Working Out To Get A Guy?

February 13th, 2017

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  Name: Couch Surfer Question: I’m in a town that is well known for its amazing outdoor options (hiking, camping, fishing, kayaking, running, climbing, mountain biking,  ski ing, snowboarding, and more…) and almost *all* the online dating profiles for men here seem to have a singular focus on ‘active lifestyle’, to the exclusion of anything […]

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Spoiler Alert: He Just Wants To Get Laid

January 19th, 2017

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Name: B Age: 38 State: Question: I had a first date with a man from a dating site on Friday evening.  Just drinks at a bar in town.  We had exchanged a few fun emails before arranging the date, so there was lots of laughter and joking at the date, and I thought it was […]

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Avoid The Dater With All The Deal Breakers

January 10th, 2017

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Name: Rebecca State: CT Age: 43 Comment: Hi. I am back in the dating pool for the first time after finding out I have HSV-2. Putting myself out there on dating sites feels like false advertising. I’m going to meet up with a really interesting guy for the first time next week who has no […]

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Never Give a Man More Credit Then He’s Earned

January 2nd, 2017

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Name: Anabelle : Question: I recently met this amazing guy at a party. After talking to him all night until 5am and having a blast, we went back to his place and of course, hooked up. It was amazing! We stayed up all night talking too.. about our favorite books, favorite breweries and all our […]

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Signs He’s Not Very Good With Women

December 20th, 2016

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  Name: Diana : Question: I’m 34 and VERY single.  I’ve had such disappointing, painful experiences with men that I have given up looking altogether. I won’t go on dating sites, I don’t go to bars, I don’t ask men out, etc. One afternoon, my mom and I went to get our phones upgraded. (We […]

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Are First Date Blow-Jobs a Thing?

December 18th, 2016

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Name: Monica : Question: Why do men I meet on the first date expect a blow job? Long story short, met a few guys on ok cupid and pof. All 3 dumped me because they weren’t looking for a relationship (which is fine) But what gets me mad is the entire date they were asking […]

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If They Don’t Look Like Their Photos Do You Bail?

December 15th, 2016

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This article popped up in my Facebook feed the other day and I thought it might generate some interesting discussion. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4022554/Woman-left-huge-bill-Plenty-Fish-date-eats-expensive-meal-flees-restaurant-blocks-her.html So many red flags. SO MANY. But nothing was more suspect than the fact that this guy invited the woman to a high-end steakhouse on a first date without meeting her. (I can’t tell […]

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