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When Does She Tell Dates She Had Cancer?

December 18th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Cancer Free, so Date Me : Comment: I recently had cancer; I finished chemo three months ago but was lucky enough to not lose my hair or have many physical signs with the exception of a medical implant and scarring. I decided to start dating again, and I […]

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Is He Fading On Her??

December 5th, 2014

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Hi so I think I’m being faded out and it’s not the first time it’s happened to me. I really hate that I got sucked into the “butterflies” and that’s why it sucks to be faded on. About a month into dating, We had the talk about what we each are looking for at the […]

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One Reason Not To Make Guys Wait For Sex

December 4th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Unsure : Comment: Hi, I’m a 35 year-old woman dating a 38 year-old man. Over the years, to screen for men who are more serious, I have implemented a “make ‘em wait” policy. On my second date with my current boyfriend, I told him I don’t have sex […]

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How Long Will A Man Wait For A Woman To Have Sex?

November 30th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): kathy : Comment: So here’s my situation. I’ve 25 and never had a long term relationship. I lost my virginity with a ons (it was fun safe and a realisation that ons/fwb isn’t for me). I I then continued to go on dates ever since. (These men tend […]

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Stop Facebook & Google Creeping Your Dates

November 26th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): indi : Comment: Hi, I had to step in, I just joined OKC and according to the article and the under 40 world in general, I’m a stalker. This is what happened, a guy came after me VERY hard on OKC, we exchanged phone numbers and he proceeded […]

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Dating Mistake 101: Acting Too Interested Too Quickly

November 24th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Jenn : Comment: Hello Moxie, I started talking to this guy whom I added randomly about 4 months ago on Facebook. I was moving to a different country from graduate school and randomly put in a name of a guy in that city/country and out of curiosity, after […]

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Critical Thinking: Why It’s Important If You’re Dating Online

November 23rd, 2014

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On Friday, xoJane published this doozie of an essay called 5 Things I Learned From Going On a Date With A Guy Who’s Missing His Front Teeth. Read the article and then come back. Go ahead. I’ll wait. I’ve said many times that the most crucial skill a single person can hone if they want […]

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How Do You Know If You’re Shooting Out Of Your League?

November 20th, 2014

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Name: AP Age: 38 Story: I haven’t actually seen this covered in your blog, but how do you discern “leagues”? As a woman, how do you determine who is and who isn’t in your league? I’m attractive & very fit by most people’s standards, do well professionally, extroverted/sociable, but I am also in my late […]

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What If He’s Sleeping With Other People But You’re Not?

November 20th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Lena : Comment: After avoiding dating for three years, I have been blindsided by a handsome and charming man. I have a lot of personal stuff going on in my life, and avoided closeness with anyone so I could stayed focused on these things. For the past month, […]

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Sometimes You Are Just A Pit Stop For A Guy

November 12th, 2014

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Today’s Dater X post over at The Frisky got me thinking about something that happened to me a few months ago. I told everybody about Ben, the British guy from OKCupid that I tore a new one when he told me he blew off our plans because he met someone else. (Note: I deleted that […]

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