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Cut Your Dating Drama In Half By Dating In Your League

March 26th, 2014

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Tweet As some of us learned last week, the guy from this story ended up fading once he got laid. The biggest red flag that this would happen, in my opinion, was one that the author herself acknowledged. The guy was out of her league. Nobody likes to admit that there are just some people [...]

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What “You’re Too Picky” Really Means

March 19th, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Lucy Comment: Dear Moxie, You have helped me a lot with dating questions in the past, mainly by showing how immature I have been. I appreciate that you tell it like it is and don’t just tell me what I want to hear. If you have time [...]

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Why Do We Care So Much About What Men Think Of Our Bodies?

February 26th, 2014

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Tweet Name: Anna : Comment: I’ve read some of the similar posts here but I haven’t read one answering my question. I am 21 and in college, I’ve only had sex with one guy and I am extremely self-conscious about my body. Since I was a teen I’ve had stretch marks from growing literally everywhere– [...]

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Should You Stop Dating Until You’ve Lost Weight?

February 22nd, 2014

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Tweet Let’s get serious for a moment, for the average adult female, a 15-20 lbs weight gain is at least 10-15% of their total body weight. Unless you lack self awareness you must know that you look different than your pictures. More to the point…why is dating your priority if you just had a major [...]

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Dating When You’re Uncomfortable With Your Body

October 11th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Kira : Comment: I’m recently divorced after a long marriage and I have children. When fully clothed, I look like I’m in good shape. I work out, I take care of myself, I have good genes and I look younger than I am (I have read enough of your blog to know you [...]

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It’s Online Dating, Not Online Friending

September 11th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Karen Comment: Hi there, Met a man on OKCupid and we really hit it off. We texted back and forth for a couple of weeks and found lots in common — LOTS in common, and a kind of shared world view. I was fearful of the in-person meet-up, because I’m fat (about a [...]

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Is It Bad For a Woman To Lose Weight To Be More Attractive To Men?

September 10th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Dyanny Comment: Hoping for an honest answer here even if it hurts! My last relationship was six years ago and I have not been in another one since! The last time I went on a date was way back in 2010. I find that dating when overweight especially in a city like New [...]

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Do Men Expect Women’s Bodies To Be Perfect?

August 19th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Amy Comment: Hello Moxie, I come to you with a dilemma that I’m just having some trouble sorting out. A few months ago, I underwent breast reduction surgery, which was deemed medically necessary by both my doctor and my insurance company. It was something that I’d wanted to do for a long time–not [...]

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Some Men Will Never Date Me Because Of My Body, And I’m OK With That

July 16th, 2013

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Tweet My latest for XOJane A few months ago I set up a date with someone from OKCupid. Plans were made, the date and location decided. A couple days before we were to meet, he emailed me asking if I had any recent pictures. Anybody who employs the use of an online dating site knows [...]

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When Will It Be My Turn To Get a Boyfriend?

July 10th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Liz Comment: I’m not even sure how to ask this question. So here is the situation, I am a 39 year old woman.  I haven’t had sex in over a year and before that, it was about 2 years.  I haven’t been in a relationship in about 6 years and that one was [...]

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