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Have First Dates Gotten Boring & Cheap?

December 20th, 2014

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I recently received this message from someone on Facebook. Recently, I had someone ask me if I wanted to go out for coffee and I canceled on them because it was inconvenient and I personally think, a boring as hell date. Should this come up for you in coaching, I’m a big fan of Vapiano […]

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Should She Give The Cheap Bad Kisser A 2nd Date?

November 19th, 2014

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Name: PA State: NJ Age: 44 Comment: I met a guy at a Moxie/ATWYS event and we clicked really well. After a few weeks of emailing and phone calls, we finally met in person.  We found it really easy to talk to each other and I enjoyed getting to know him. At the end of […]

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Q: Why Are You Still Single? A: Why Does It Matter? #atwys

August 26th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Not Bitter … yet : Comment: The last 3 or 4 first dates I have been on were with guys I met online. They all felt it was okay to complain to me about the quality of women they were meeting and how they were particularly bothered by […]

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The Finances of Dating – Who Spends More? #atwys

August 21st, 2014

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From now until further notice, I’m mostly going to be re-posting popular posts from the past. If a letter comes with a particularly interesting angle, I will post it and write a response. I need a break. Enjoy! Also, FYI…we’re doing some back end maintenance. If the site goes down, it’s due to that. This […]

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Beware The Woman Who Upgrades The Date #atwys

August 18th, 2014

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  Name: John Age: 45 State: NY Question: I will describe the circumstances of my recent first date and then ask a couple of questions. Met a girl online and we exchanged a few emails and phone calls and set up the date. Since I recently moved to her area, I suggested we go to […]

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Did She Get Chewed & Screwed? #atwys

June 26th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): nb1972 Comment: I joined OKC a week ago. I’ve been on 3 dates, two with men who added about 5 in to their height, but were otherwise good for an hour of chat so the dates weren’t a total loss. And yes, I realize this is the norm, […]

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If It’s Not A Date Does He Still Have To Pay?

May 19th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Frank Comment: I have been noticing on a lot of female profiles recently that say something like the first meeting isn’t considered a date. For example, here is a quote from a woman’s profile in the First Date section: “Meeting for a cup of coffee or drink, see […]

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The Most Obnoxious Things People Do On First Dates

May 15th, 2014

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A reader emailed me and suggested that I write up a list of the most annoying things people do on first dates. Some of these are gender specific, so gird your loins. Here goes: 1. Selecting a first date spot that is inconvenient to you, but not them – The best way to avoid this […]

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Just Say No To The Flakey First Dates

May 14th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): sarah Comment: I was asked out for a drink by this guy whom I had previously met at a party. We had kissed at the party and he had indicated he’d like to take me for a drink sometime. He had added me as a Facebook friend at […]

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It’s Not Them, It’s You

April 22nd, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Red Comment: I started talking to this guy on Tinder almost two weeks ago. We met for coffee on a Saturday evening about 3 days from when we started talking/texting. I laid out my boundaries upfront and so did he, I want to take things slow and enjoy […]

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