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Dating Rules 101: Don’t Date Assholes

June 29th, 2015

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Tired of games : Comment: I think I already know the answers, but would like your thoughts…and would also like to see if this is common with other daters. I’m a 45 year-old single man and I’ve always had decent success meeting women, online and offline. However, over […]

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Here’s How You’re Cock Blocking Yourself Out of Dates

February 24th, 2015

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There are various counter-intuitive things that people do that they think helps them weed out the flakes or faders that actually keep them dateless. Between reading dozens of dating profiles every week to reading countless articles about dating, I’ve been enable to identify some common roadblocks that people throw up that impede their ability to […]

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Have First Dates Gotten Boring & Cheap?

December 20th, 2014

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I recently received this message from someone on Facebook. Recently, I had someone ask me if I wanted to go out for coffee and I canceled on them because it was inconvenient and I personally think, a boring as hell date. Should this come up for you in coaching, I’m a big fan of Vapiano […]

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Q: Why Are You Still Single? A: Why Does It Matter? #atwys

August 26th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Not Bitter … yet : Comment: The last 3 or 4 first dates I have been on were with guys I met online. They all felt it was okay to complain to me about the quality of women they were meeting and how they were particularly bothered by […]

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Did She Get Chewed & Screwed? #atwys

June 26th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): nb1972 Comment: I joined OKC a week ago. I’ve been on 3 dates, two with men who added about 5 in to their height, but were otherwise good for an hour of chat so the dates weren’t a total loss. And yes, I realize this is the norm, […]

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If It’s Not A Date Does He Still Have To Pay?

May 19th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Frank Comment: I have been noticing on a lot of female profiles recently that say something like the first meeting isn’t considered a date. For example, here is a quote from a woman’s profile in the First Date section: “Meeting for a cup of coffee or drink, see […]

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Just Say No To The Flakey First Dates

May 14th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): sarah Comment: I was asked out for a drink by this guy whom I had previously met at a party. We had kissed at the party and he had indicated he’d like to take me for a drink sometime. He had added me as a Facebook friend at […]

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How Does One Casually Date?

December 10th, 2013

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Name: Augs Comment: I’ve never learned how to “shop around” in a dating situation. Since I first started dating at 18 my method was “instant relationship”. There was no such thing as “casual dating” to me. I ended up getting to know the basics about the majority of the guys I dated WHILE we were […]

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Why Hasn’t He Made a Move Yet?

December 9th, 2013

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Name: Pamela Comment: Whose fault is it if dates arent leading to anything physical? Recently I went on a couple of dates with one guy and there has been no attempt at touching/kissing on those dates. I find it puzzling because usually guys are very obvious with these things so Im not sure what is […]

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How To Avoid Bad Or Unsuccessful First Dates

November 4th, 2013

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I recently contributed my thoughts on LadyLux.com’s How to Ace a First Date article. Since the author couldn’t use all of my thoughts because she had other sources to include, I thought I’d post the remainder of the suggestions that I passed along. Most of these are specific to women, but others can apply to […]

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