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Things You Should Never Admit In a Dating Profile..Or Maybe Ever

August 2nd, 2012


When it comes to dating, there are certain confessions that people really should to themselves. I can remember reading a man’s profile once and came across something that gave me pause. He answered the question “Are you an honorable person” by saying that he wasn’t an honorable person int he past but was “working on […]

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Plausible Deniability & Dealing With Conflict

April 2nd, 2012


Recently, someone from my past contacted me to discuss something I had said in passing here. It was said not in a post, but in a comment.  He was understandably annoyed. I told him that just because something could apply to him doesn’t mean it was directed it him and suggested he simply not read […]

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He Said/She Said – Men, Ultimatums & Who Wears The Pants?

March 28th, 2012


More questions from our He Said/She Said event: Regarding online dating, why do men email only through the dating site & NEVER ask for your personal email? There are several possible answers to this: 1. They don’t want to end up in a pen pal relationship. I read so many profiles where the men state […]

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He Said/She Said – Nice Guys, Hook Ups & Cheating “Boyfriends”

March 27th, 2012


Here are some interesting questions from last night’s He Said/She Said panel. (Where I may or may not have had a few Cosmos and am now suffering from a hangover.)   If your date wants a hookup but not a relationship, what would be an appropriate way for him to express this? The tricky part […]

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Who Has More Luck Online – Men or Women?

March 12th, 2012


Don’t act like the ‘chubby’ girls or the ‘older’ girls get NO action online. Do some homework: ask all of your chubby and older girlfriends how many emails they get online. I bet it’s a good amount. – Dark Sarcasm   Um, I’m 43 years old. I’m in good shape, but I’m definitely not slender. […]

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What’s Your Dating Timetable?

February 16th, 2012


Here’s another question from our He Said/She Said event the other night. Ladies, do you have a timetable in your mind on how long you want to date before you move in or get married?   I think there are a lot of factors involved with this like age, relationship goals AND relationship history. If […]

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Dating Potpourri: Why Don’t Men……?

February 15th, 2012


At our He Said/She Said event the other night, we got a ton f interesting questions. I’m going to post a few of them here. Why don’t men try to learn an activity that would impress a woman like ballroom dancing or salsa so they could enjoy them together? My answer was: Men don’t take […]

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