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Head Isn’t All About Him

May 11th, 2014

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My wonderful friend Betty introduced me to some articles this past week that led me to this one. I love my boyfriend. And I love giving him blow jobs. What I do not love is the taste of spunk. No matter whose splooge it is, it tastes like a cross between sour juice, bitters, mold, […]

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Here’s What Happens When You Add Casual Sex To Your OkCupid Profile

April 30th, 2014

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I have used OKCupid off and on for about three years. After a six-month relationship with a man I met on OKCupid ended, I took a brief break. When I came back I decided to shake things up a bit. I updated my relationship preferences to include casual sex. The messages I received ranged from […]

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If You Can’t Get Laid Without Serious Effort, There’s A Problem

April 1st, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Playful Kitten Comment: I’m in my mid thirties and have been single now for a year. I’ve had a couple of hook ups and one proper date (which I instigated). My problem is I never seem to get hit on when I go out. The last time it […]

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The Only Guys Who Will Commit Before Sex Are The Ones You Reject

February 20th, 2014

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Somebody asked me recently why dating advice is so inconsistent. I told them that it was because most dating advice lacks objectivity. I’ve said this before. Today this popped up in my Twitter stream. Now, I’ve spoken of my regard for Evan in the past. He’s got more passion and authenticity than most folks in […]

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How Come a Man Can Have Casual Sex And Be a “Good Guy” But a Woman Can’t?

June 2nd, 2013

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Alex over at The Urban Dater wrote an interesting post asserting that free dating sites are mostly for people who want casual sex or a one night stand. Even on OkCupid, the standard-bearer of all free online dating sites, women can’t get away from the fact that there are dudes that want one night stands; […]

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Stop Pretending You’re Not Competitive With Other Women

May 10th, 2013

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Name: Lucy Comment: I’m generally slightly flirtatious and am so without even trying. However I know about boundaries and would never have designs on anyone else’s man or chase after anyone who is clearly taken. I find this slightly distressing as on previous occasions, I have been accused of stepping over the line but that […]

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Elementary, My Dear Watson: He Just Wanted To Get Laid

March 1st, 2013

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Name: Eleanor Age: 30 City: Carbondale State: CO : Comment: I’ve read your blog for a few months, but as a (potential) contributor, I’m a virgin…try to be gentle? Everybody plays a fool…sometimes. I live in the mountains in Colorado. It’s lovely, but remote- as you’d imagine -moving here as a single woman has yielded […]

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True or False: A Woman Can Get Laid Whenever She Wants

February 18th, 2013

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On the topic of women who seek casual/nsa/non-monogamous sex/relationships, G. writes: “I’d say there are two assumptions:  one is that a woman, no matter what she says, is always “looking” for a more-than-sexual relationship should one present itself and two, as you said, is that a woman can get “just sex” pretty much anytime she […]

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Is Looking For a Man Who Will Commit A Waste of Time?

September 5th, 2012

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Name: Becky Age: 23 State: Question: I’ve never had a relationship longer than 2 months. When I was younger it wasn’t big deal to me, but now it’s getting frustrating. About myself, looks wise I want to say I’m higher than average, I’m in shape, very feminine, and I have a great job in sales, […]

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First Date Second Guessing

August 26th, 2012

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Name: Roo Age: 39 State: NYC Question:  Had a date Friday with a woman from Match. We met for drinks then went to a comedy show and then had another drink after. It was getting late and I had to get home to walk my dog. I suggested she come back to my place with […]

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