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If You Can’t Get Laid Without Serious Effort, There’s A Problem

April 1st, 2014

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Tweet Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Playful Kitten Comment: I’m in my mid thirties and have been single now for a year. I’ve had a couple of hook ups and one proper date (which I instigated). My problem is I never seem to get hit on when I go out. The last time [...]

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The Only Guys Who Will Commit Before Sex Are The Ones You Reject

February 20th, 2014

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Tweet Somebody asked me recently why dating advice is so inconsistent. I told them that it was because most dating advice lacks objectivity. I’ve said this before. Today this popped up in my Twitter stream. Now, I’ve spoken of my regard for Evan in the past. He’s got more passion and authenticity than most folks [...]

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How Come a Man Can Have Casual Sex And Be a “Good Guy” But a Woman Can’t?

June 2nd, 2013

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Tweet Alex over at The Urban Dater wrote an interesting post asserting that free dating sites are mostly for people who want casual sex or a one night stand. Even on OkCupid, the standard-bearer of all free online dating sites, women can’t get away from the fact that there are dudes that want one night [...]

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Stop Pretending You’re Not Competitive With Other Women

May 10th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Lucy Comment: I’m generally slightly flirtatious and am so without even trying. However I know about boundaries and would never have designs on anyone else’s man or chase after anyone who is clearly taken. I find this slightly distressing as on previous occasions, I have been accused of stepping over the line but [...]

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Elementary, My Dear Watson: He Just Wanted To Get Laid

March 1st, 2013

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Tweet Name: Eleanor Age: 30 City: Carbondale State: CO : Comment: I’ve read your blog for a few months, but as a (potential) contributor, I’m a virgin…try to be gentle? Everybody plays a fool…sometimes. I live in the mountains in Colorado. It’s lovely, but remote- as you’d imagine -moving here as a single woman has [...]

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True or False: A Woman Can Get Laid Whenever She Wants

February 18th, 2013

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Tweet On the topic of women who seek casual/nsa/non-monogamous sex/relationships, G. writes: “I’d say there are two assumptions:  one is that a woman, no matter what she says, is always “looking” for a more-than-sexual relationship should one present itself and two, as you said, is that a woman can get “just sex” pretty much anytime [...]

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Is Looking For a Man Who Will Commit A Waste of Time?

September 5th, 2012

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Tweet Name: Becky Age: 23 State: Question: I’ve never had a relationship longer than 2 months. When I was younger it wasn’t big deal to me, but now it’s getting frustrating. About myself, looks wise I want to say I’m higher than average, I’m in shape, very feminine, and I have a great job in [...]

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First Date Second Guessing

August 26th, 2012

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Tweet Name: Roo Age: 39 State: NYC Question:  Had a date Friday with a woman from Match. We met for drinks then went to a comedy show and then had another drink after. It was getting late and I had to get home to walk my dog. I suggested she come back to my place [...]

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Things You Should Never Admit In a Dating Profile..Or Maybe Ever

August 2nd, 2012

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Tweet When it comes to dating, there are certain confessions that people really should to themselves. I can remember reading a man’s profile once and came across something that gave me pause. He answered the question “Are you an honorable person” by saying that he wasn’t an honorable person int he past but was “working [...]

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What Do So Many Men Like To Talk About Sex On a 1st Date?

April 23rd, 2012

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Tweet I have gone on 5 dates this year that were disasters. Immediately (within the first 15 minutes )they asked or hinted that they’d like to sleep with me before even making decent conversation. – Ariel I have tried before and seem to attract very sweet, attractive men who don’t know how to take care [...]

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