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Did He Get Cold Feet Or Was She Just Getting Too Serious?

November 18th, 2012


Name: Shauna Age: 29 State: NY Question: Hit it off with a guy, met him through a mutual friend. Had great chemistry from the moment we met. He would want to see me all the time, hung out with him almost every other day for the first month. He even introduced me to his best […]

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Beware The Facebook Friend Collector & Guys Who Just Want to Be Friends

November 6th, 2012


Name: Lala Age: 28 State: MN Question: I recently separated from my husband. We are getting divorced and I have started dating. My ex has a serious girlfriend. I had an intense, horrible relationship with someone right out the door. I was not ready to date anyone and it ended very badly. This was very […]

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The Meek Shall Not Inherit My Vagina

July 26th, 2012


Several months back, I emailed a guy on OKCupid. We exchanged about 3 messages,most of which revolved around our thoughts on the site and online dating in general. Since I don’t do the extended email exchange thing, I responded to his last email by saying, “So, Mr. Username. What’s our next move?” I was giving […]

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Guest Post – Why Guys Think Pics With Cars, Bikes & Fish Are Hot

December 28th, 2011


Name: The Private Man Website: Story: Men, Online Dating Profiles Photos, Accomplishments When evaluating online dating profile photographs of men, there are quite a few complaints about the nature of those photos. There is the shirtless photo of the man in the bathroom, the man with his motorcycle (or other motorized vehicle), and the […]

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Cultural Differences, Kids, Jobs… Or Just An Excuse Not To Get Serious?

October 20th, 2011


Name: Yesenia State: WA Age:  30 Comment: My last 3 boyfriends have been Indian. They were super fun but most of all they  where all very sweet and caring. So what is the problem? The problem was that I was not Indian. I’m an engineer with a masters degree that was about the only thing […]

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It’s Not Her, It’s Him

September 26th, 2011


Name: Should I Be Friends State: Texas Age: 29 Comment: Dear Moxie, I met this guy on OKCupid 3 months ago. It was a very good first date and we started dating with no problems right away. He pursued me, treated me very well, we had a great connection and similar relationship goals. He would […]

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Beware The Don Draper Syndrome

September 3rd, 2011


Comment: I am in dire need of some insight into a situation I’ve recently experienced. Before I begin, let me tell you some things about myself that I believe have relevance here. I’m a 34-year-old female, never been married; pretty fit and decently attractive. I’m a prolific first-date dater and I’ve never had a serious, […]

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It’s Not You, It’s Him

June 28th, 2011


Name: cdales |  Location: New York , NY |Question: Hi Moxie I’m sure you’ll hear this and go same story different situation but I’ve been reading you’re advice and find your angle/take on the situation refreshingly simple and honest.  I’ve had this one situation in my dating career pester me and would love to get […]

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