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The Serenity Prayer for Online Daters

April 9th, 2012

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Tweet Name: Rosie Age: 36 Website: Question: Hi Moxie In the past week, I’ve had a few dates where the person has revealed a huge dealbreaker, such as dishonesty, drug use, or a major health or lifestlye issue they are not willing to address. Date 1: Advertised himself as 45 years old, with pictures of [...]

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How To Not Win Friends & Influence People

April 5th, 2012

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Tweet The other day we talked about getting stuck at the same point in the dating process over and over. Usually this occurs when it comes to dealing with what we perceive as conflict or resistance from the other person. As much as many of us would like to get that person on the phone [...]

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Plausible Deniability & Dealing With Conflict

April 2nd, 2012

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Tweet Recently, someone from my past contacted me to discuss something I had said in passing here. It was said not in a post, but in a comment.  He was understandably annoyed. I told him that just because something could apply to him doesn’t mean it was directed it him and suggested he simply not [...]

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He Said/She Said – Nice Guys, Hook Ups & Cheating “Boyfriends”

March 27th, 2012

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Tweet Here are some interesting questions from last night’s He Said/She Said panel. (Where I may or may not have had a few Cosmos and am now suffering from a hangover.)   If your date wants a hookup but not a relationship, what would be an appropriate way for him to express this? The tricky [...]

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When Will She Stop Withholding Sex?

March 21st, 2012

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Tweet Name: Jay State: New York Age: Comment: I am a 26 year-old male and I have been with my girlfriend for around 11 months now, on and off. We just got back together and emotionally she is getting close to me again but she has withheld sex from me since December and is still [...]

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The Stranger

March 20th, 2012

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Tweet Name: Kitty State: NY Age: 45 Comment: Hi Moxie:  So I’m giving online dating a try and signed up for JDate.  My Modern Orthodox community here on Long Island is medium size, but I’m open to meeting less religious types…and those outside of my immediate area.  Among those that keep showing up as ideal [...]

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Does He Tell Them He’s Been Snipped?

March 19th, 2012

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Tweet Name: IA State: MA Age: http: 38 Comment: When do you reveal to a lady that you’ve had a vasectomy?  During my previous marriage, the ex and I agreed to have no kids so ‘snip-snip’.  Unfortunately we divorced 2 years ago and now I am back on the dating scene. I’ve purposely targeted online [...]

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The Player Sh*t Test: Does “Game” Really Work?

March 17th, 2012

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Tweet This morning I read a post over at Private Man’s blog. The post offered advice to women on how to spot a player.   A man starts a conversation with a woman who is single…. The conversation continues and gets just a bit more personal. They find out what each person does for a [...]

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Are Their Dangers To Dating Someone Who Is Separated?

March 16th, 2012

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Tweet Name: offensivedan State: La Age: Comment: Given that I am approaching middle age, I have noticed more and more women, in my dating pool, are divorced or separated. In the past, I would never date women who were separated nor women who were recently divorced-i.e. less than a year.  However, I am rethinking my [...]

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The Plight of The Single Man

March 15th, 2012

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Tweet Name: Pete State: NY Age: 25 Comment: I see a lot of  blog posts on this site about how many options men have in this city. However, what ages are being referred to is a major factor. For a 40 year old man dating 35 year old woman it’s the pick of the litter, [...]

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