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It’s Okay To Be Hurt If He Blows You off After Sex

May 20th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Fallinaa Comment: Dear Moxie, I really like your blog and always find useful insights from you and the commentators here. I joined a cycling group a couple months ago and participated in their training program (ride on every Saturday). A couple rides later, a guy started to approach […]

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You Don’t Get To Tell Me If I’m Sexy Or Not

May 9th, 2014

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As predicted, yesterday’s post got a ton of interesting comments. One of the points raised was the idea of misrepresentaion, especially as it has to do with online dating. Lexy Says: May 8th, 2014 at 4:55 pm e What kills me is how many guys who claim to be fitness & health nuts are on […]

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The Savvy Dater: Like People Who Like You

September 22nd, 2013

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Name: L : Comment: Hello, I recently relocated back to a new city.  I’m mid-twenties, I have a bachelor’s degree, I’ve traveled the world and am on a good career trajectory.  I’ve always been independently-minded (but never strident) and genuinely, being single has never bothered me.  However, I really, really, would like to be dating […]

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Is It Bad For a Woman To Lose Weight To Be More Attractive To Men?

September 10th, 2013

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Name: Dyanny Comment: Hoping for an honest answer here even if it hurts! My last relationship was six years ago and I have not been in another one since! The last time I went on a date was way back in 2010. I find that dating when overweight especially in a city like New York […]

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The Problem Isn’t Him, It’s Your Expectations

July 9th, 2013

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Name: Kris : Comment: Hi, thanks for your remarkable posts and advice. I found them to be very helpful. I would like to reach out to you ask for some advice. So here it goes: So, I met this guy on my way to the other side of the world, it was a long flight […]

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Is Having A Man The Only Thing You Care About?

January 2nd, 2013

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Name: Princess Leia Age: 25 State: TN Question: How do I end up with a guy who only sees me as an option, for now? I met this incredible guy 5 years ago and he has told me he is not ready for a relationship because he is a musician but not the “typical” musician. […]

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How Come Some Women Are Never Satisfied?

November 25th, 2012

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Name: CityGal Age: 35 State: Question: Hi Moxie, It’s been awhile since I wrote in, and I thought I’d turn to you since this situation has my best friend and sister stumped. I’ve been dating someone since mid-September and we agreed that we only wanted to date each other exclusively about a month after dating. […]

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How To Know When You’re Just An Option

August 21st, 2012

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Name: Bad Habits Age: 22 State: Florida Question: Ok so i met this guy outside of my work. Well he’s in the painting business and as soon as i met him and got his number he left for Detroit for family and work. Well we texted everyday talked on the phone every night. It went […]

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Servicey! – How To Meet People Offline

August 14th, 2012

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I was reading this blog post this morning about Match.com’s newly rolled out Stir Events. But I want to try something new. I’m so over online dating (for now), speed dating makes my skin crawl (sorry but it does) and most singles events are poorly produced and/or aimed at youngins. Let’s talking about getting offline. […]

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And That’s Why..We Don’t Take Everything Men Say At Face Value

August 12th, 2012

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One of my favorite dating coaches, Evan Marc Katz, had an interesting post last week. A reader, Mandy, submitted a letter about her current manz situation. Evan, I’m in an interesting situation. I have deep feelings for someone in my “dating circle’, have become the closest person to him, and yet I know I am […]

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