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Even If He Thinks You’re Nuts, He’ll Still F*ck You

February 6th, 2014


Name: Dori Comment: Dear Moxie, I am very confused by the further development of the ‘Why would a guy turn down casual sex?’ story. To summarize: I met a guy, he seemed into me, I responded in kind, on the second date I unleashed the crazy, he backed off and friend zoned me, I unleashed […]

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How Much “Crazy” Can Someone Handle?

January 26th, 2014


Name: Kelly Website: Question: How many chances do you get to come back from an episode of the “crazy?” Seeing a guy long-distance for four months. He travels for work, we met at work. Last night was the first “where is this going talk” which actually went well, except for my bad habit of needing […]

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The Savvy Dater: Don’t Bother Telling Them Off. They Don’t Care.

November 30th, 2013


Right after my sister died, I reached out to a friend, P.  P. and I met on OKC a few years back. At the time he was living with his Dad in his Park Avenue apartment having recently broken up with his girlfriend and was “in between” places. That was something I learned on the […]

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Signs He’s Trying To Break Up With You

October 7th, 2013


Name: Rachel Comment: I’ve been dating a guy now for a few months, and a couple of weeks ago the conversation of “where do you see this going” got brought up by him not me.  Ultimately we agreed that eventually we wanted this to be exclusive with the whole bf/gf label.  2 weeks ago he […]

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Why It’s Important To F*ck Up When You’re Dating Someone

August 20th, 2013


Name: jaylene Comment: So I have been dating a guy for nearly 5 months now. Things are starting to get serious. Met his mom, spend time with his kids, etc…. I havent seen him in 4 days and I missed  him. He told me he will be with kids this weekend, but I can see […]

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Just How Scary *Is* Online Dating?

July 23rd, 2013


Name: Jaime Comment: Hey Moxie. As you know, I’ve read your blog for awhile now, but recently encountered something that I don’t think you’ve ever addressed. I’m on OkCupid as well as Plenty Of Fish, to expand my dating options. I don’t hide that fact at all (none of that “I can’t believe I’m on […]

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The Problem Isn’t Him, It’s Your Expectations

July 9th, 2013


Name: Kris : Comment: Hi, thanks for your remarkable posts and advice. I found them to be very helpful. I would like to reach out to you ask for some advice. So here it goes: So, I met this guy on my way to the other side of the world, it was a long flight […]

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Is It Possible To Out-Grow a Partner?

February 27th, 2013


Name: Lisa Age: 24 State: New York Question: So, I love my boyfriend, but we’re from two completely different backgrounds. I’m biracial and from a single-mother family and I know how to hustle. He’s from a nuclear, anglo-saxon family and is pursuing his passion of being a freelance/business-owner of his recording engineer studio. I wouldn’t […]

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Did He Get Cold Feet Or Was She Just Getting Too Serious?

November 18th, 2012


Name: Shauna Age: 29 State: NY Question: Hit it off with a guy, met him through a mutual friend. Had great chemistry from the moment we met. He would want to see me all the time, hung out with him almost every other day for the first month. He even introduced me to his best […]

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Did Her FWB Intentionally Lead Her On?

September 17th, 2012


Here’s an article that I thought would make for interesting discussion. Read it before you comment, por favor. Read it? Okay. Let’s begin.(For the record, I am a big fan of Mandy. I love pretty much everything she writes. I just had an issue with this piece.)   I caught up to her. Pretty’s face […]

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