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Date The Way You Want, Not How You Think You Should

June 22nd, 2017

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Name: Kelly Age: 43 State: AL Question: Hi, Moxie: I have a ? about online “fakers”, e.g. married men lying about their status. I have had a lot of dating experience, both from online and “real world.” Also been married before. My fear is that some of my bad past experiences are coloring my judgement. […]

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Don’t Blame My Vagina For Your Insecurity

June 18th, 2017

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Now, I don’t believe that anybody is obligated to perform a certain sex act. When it comes to sex, everybody who has sex has different likes and dislikes. If a man or woman said that they just didn’t enjoy giving head, I’d shrug and say, “Okay.” I like giving head, and that’s why i do […]

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What Is Your OKCupid, Tinder & Bumble Match Rate?

June 15th, 2017

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Speaking of men and relationships, I still have my OKCupid profile up, but I foresee it being disabled by the end of the week. The rejection is doing a job on my psyche.  I do not get one response to the emails I send out. Not one. But then, I respond to literally zero of […]

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Dating With Depression Is a Bitch

June 13th, 2017

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While my episodes are few and far between now, I still wrestle with bouts of extreme depression. My body aches; I can’t get enough sleep; I walk around exhausted; I pummel myself with searing criticisms. I become despondent. It happened today, and I know it was triggered by being back on OKCupid. All three of […]

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Stop Accepting Bad Behavior From Men

June 11th, 2017

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Name: liz silvia : Question: After a long break from online dating, I decided to test the waters again. I matched with someone on Tinder who stated at the outset that he was interested in casual but ongoing dating. Repeated hookups, in other words. Which I’m ok with. We texted for a few days, and […]

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When Do You Ask A Guy If Things Are Serious?

June 7th, 2017

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Name: MzLadyJ : Question: I’ve been single for about 5 years; mostly by choice, partially by circumstance, and I decided that as of the new year I was ready to get back out into the dating scene. My objective is to be in a monogamous/long-term relationship, that would lead to marriage. But I don’t lead […]

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Is He Interested or Just An Attention Whore?

June 4th, 2017

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Name: Tori : Question: I have a guy friend who is confusing the heck out of me.  He sends me shirtless Snaps all the time.  As well as Snaps of food he’s making, and snaps of his dog.  We used to work together, still do, just different departments.  And I’m assuming that shirtless snaps aren’t […]

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Are You “Just The Tip” Dating?

June 1st, 2017

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Name: Annabelle : Question: I’m late to the online dating game. I’m 50, cute but not gorgeous, and been doing online dating with moderate success for only about two years. So, I don’t know what’s normal and not normal. Lately, something weird has been happening. Men who contact me first will ask me out, or […]

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Is He Being Flirty or Just Friendly?

May 31st, 2017

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  I arrive at the Lower East Side bar about an hour into the soiree. By then, everyone there had consumed at least one cocktail and had loosened up. I decided to use the knowledge I’d gleaned from a Whiskey tasting a few weeks before and ordered a finger’s worth of Johnnie Walker on the […]

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Cat Fight

May 29th, 2017

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“Did get what you were looking for?” he asked.I whipped out my phone. “Not yet,” I muttered.  “He better be lying in a pool of his own vomit for her to come down to meet me like that.” You fucking asshole. That ex you just left is the least of your worries now. I pressed […]

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