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How To Write The Best Dating Profile EVAH! – Part 2: Photos & Self-Summaries

October 14th, 2014

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In the first installment of this series we covered the basics: headline, username, basic details, and search criteria. Now let’s tackle the stuff that people really find tricky. THE SELF-SUMMARY/ABOUT ME SECTION At this point in the game, it’s not about who has the most engaging or interesting profile text, it’s about who has the […]

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How To Write The Best Dating Profile EVAH! #atwys

October 12th, 2014

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You kids are in for a treat. This week, I am going to write a series of posts that give you the best advice and tips to help you write an amazing dating profile. Today will start with the basics. The basic details, that is.   YOUR USERNAME How To Choose a Username You username […]

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Which Dating Site Is Better: Match or #OkCupid?

September 29th, 2014

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One question I’m always asked in a profile review session is which dating sites I recommend. I’m quite open to my clients that I think Eharmony is a gigantic waste of time at this stage in the dating game. Things move much too quickly now, which means our attention spans and time we’re willing to […]

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15 Harsh Realities About Online Dating #atwys

September 24th, 2014

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When it comes to online dating, my personal mantra is that it means nothing until it means everything. As such, I’ve developed my own personal set of dating realities. They have helped me avoid the dating fatigue that is so common, especially amongst online daters. Before you head down that rabbit hole again try to […]

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How To Get People to Respond To Your #OKCupid Messages #atwys

September 23rd, 2014

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If there is one common complaint that I hear from my readers and clients, it’s that they are tired of sending out dozens of messages on dating sites and receiving few to no replies. The following are some insights and tips that will help you avoid the common frustrations that come with online dating and, […]

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How Can She Avoid Meeting Frat Bros? #atwys

August 25th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): BostonGal : Comment: I recently moved to the Boston area and was looking to meet new guys. Around the time I moved, Tinder because the talk of the town, so, of course, I joined it. After a few flopped dates later, I removed myself from Tinder and tried […]

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Who Has Better Luck Dating Online – Men or Women?

August 17th, 2014

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From now until further notice, I’m mostly going to be re-posting popular posts from the past. If a letter comes with a particularly interesting angle, I will post it and write a response. I need a break.  Enjoy! This was originally posted in March of 2012.   Don’t act like the ‘chubby’ girls or the […]

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Why Honesty & Online Dating Don’t Always Mix #atwys

August 13th, 2014

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Here’s an email I recently received in response to my OKCupid profile. Hey there, I hope you don’t mind me making a little suggestion? Please be honest about your age in your listing? Don’t lie about it and then fess up later. A lot of women seem to do that here and it’s a real […]

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Should You Ever Tell Someone The Real Reason You Won’t Date Them? #atwys

August 10th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): JW : Comment: What’s the etiquette when you meet someone for the first time via an online dating website, and you can clearly see he or she is much heavier than the pictures he or she posted online?  I’m not talking a few vanity pounds, I mean about […]

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Why You Should Remove Texting From Your Dating Equations #atwys

July 28th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Sunshine : Comment: Hello. Your advice is some of the best I have read online about dating. So I have been dating through the online avenue. I go on great dates, know not to go to fast after guilt and being blown off. But one common thread that […]

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