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The BS Reason OKCupid Removed The “Who’s New” Feature

March 5th, 2017

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  In “You’re Full of Shit” News: OkCupid decided to remove the “Who’s New” option from their search filter. Our main goal at OkCupid is to provide a positive, safe place for members to form substantive connections. While the Who’s New feature was a useful tool for a small part of OkCupid, on the whole […]

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Why Do Men Say They Want a Relationship If They Don’t?

February 23rd, 2017

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Name: Gracie Question: Dear Moxie, I was wondering what you think about men who include the line “I’m looking for a serious relationship” in their profile. I met a guy on match.com last February and that is what he put in his profile. We’ve been dating for a year now, and the relationship doesn’t feel […]

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Are Tinder, OKCupid, and Bumble a Waste of Time?

February 20th, 2017

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  Name: OKWTF Question: Is OKCupid finished as a dating site?  I reactivated after a two year hiatus and I’ve noticed the site has taken a dramatic downhill turn.  I was using Tinder and Bumble but I didn’t feel those apps gave me enough space to flesh out my personality (and learn more about a […]

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How Do You Avoid Dating a Liberal/Conservative?

February 17th, 2017

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There’s really nothing like matching with someone on Tinder or OKCupid only to discover through messaging that they vote with your opposing political party. While how one identifies politically has always been a bone of contention, never has the issue been more volatile than it is today. As I swiped through profiles yesterday, I came […]

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Should She Pretend To Love Working Out To Get A Guy?

February 13th, 2017

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  Name: Couch Surfer Question: I’m in a town that is well known for its amazing outdoor options (hiking, camping, fishing, kayaking, running, climbing, mountain biking,  ski ing, snowboarding, and more…) and almost *all* the online dating profiles for men here seem to have a singular focus on ‘active lifestyle’, to the exclusion of anything […]

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Stop Letting Strange Men Talk Dirty To You

January 23rd, 2017

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If there’s one thing I’ve noticed in my 10+ years as a business owner, it’s that I get a hell of a lot less push back when I use the masculine (or assumed masculine) spellings of my name. (Chris, Christan.)  Through out my life I have been addressed as Christian. Even when I fill out […]

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If They Don’t Look Like Their Photos Do You Bail?

December 15th, 2016

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This article popped up in my Facebook feed the other day and I thought it might generate some interesting discussion. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4022554/Woman-left-huge-bill-Plenty-Fish-date-eats-expensive-meal-flees-restaurant-blocks-her.html So many red flags. SO MANY. But nothing was more suspect than the fact that this guy invited the woman to a high-end steakhouse on a first date without meeting her. (I can’t tell […]

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Why Do Many People Only Date Younger Men & Women?

December 12th, 2016

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Name: Jay T : Question: When I look at women on-line that are in their 30’s they are for the most part willing to date their age and up to 10 years older.   Now compare that to women in their 40’s and early 50’s that want to date someone (typically) 10 years younger and (usually) […]

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What Does He Mean When He Says “No Hook Ups!”

November 29th, 2016

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  Name: Nia : Question: I’m somewhat throwing this out to the commentariat and especially the single guys who are doing online dating out there: I’ve been using Tinder on and off–for a short while 3 years ago, and then back on and off now for about 6 months. I noticed that in the last […]

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Did He Really Get a Girlfriend Overnight?

November 21st, 2016

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  Name: KK : Question: Hi, So I wrote to you awhile back about going back on online dating, and have been back on okcupid for about a month. About two weeks ago this guy messaged me on okc and quickly asked for my number.  We texted a lot, which is a mistake I will […]

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