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How Testing A Guy Can Backfire

May 11th, 2015

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Name: Jennifer Comment: I met this guy online and we finally met in person. Our first date was amazing—so much so that he wrote me after our date to tell me he thought I was amazing, that I exceeded all of his expectations and that he can’t wait to see me again. We scheduled our […]

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Awkward Online Dating Scenarios To Avoid

April 28th, 2015

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I can remember reading a man’s profile once and came across something that gave me pause. He answered the question “Are you an honorable person” by saying that he wasn’t an honorable person int he past but was “working on it.” Intrigued by his “refreshing honesty” and curious to see just how much he’d admit, […]

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Know The Signs of a Toxic Relationship

April 21st, 2015

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My friend J. forwarded to me an interesting article from Salon that I thought would make for good discussion. The author tells the story of a man she met online who, on the surface, seemed ideal. Their first couple of dates went off without a hitch, with the second ending in a hook-up back at […]

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Sick of Getting OKCupid Messages From People You’d Never Date? Here’s Your Answer

April 20th, 2015

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Last week, OKCupid launched a new feature called Incognito.  The option allows users to “hide” their profile completely from searches. The only people able to view your profile are those you message or view yourself. If you check out someone’s profile and don’t like what you see, you can revoke their access to your profile. […]

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How Come Nobody Hot Views My Profile?

April 16th, 2015

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Moxie, I suggest that you finally deal with the fact that you are not beautiful. I know it stings, and it seems unfair. – Anna Well, I’ll disagree with you there. As I’ve said before, I was blessed with great genes and features. I happen to think my facial features are quite stunning. Plus, I […]

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No, Seriously..When Did OKCupid Become So Awful?

April 12th, 2015

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I mentioned some time last week that I was starting to give OKCupid the big ol’ side eye.  While this particular online dating site was always a bit trolly, there’s been some kind of massive cosmic shift in the last few months. I’ve used Match as well and was unimpressed mainly because the Match profile […]

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Would You Date Someone Who Couldn’t/Doesn’t Work?

April 2nd, 2015

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Jane : Comment: I have long term back issues.  I have not been able to work and earn income in over a dozen years. I use online dating. How do I explain this, and when?  I notice a lot of men put retired as employment, I put caregiver […]

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Here’s How You Avoid The OKCupid Fakes & Flakes

March 30th, 2015

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): deva dani : Comment: I started online dating this last December after a break up and I have hit a rash of guys who sound very excited about me, want my phone number, and then drop off the face of the earth or never get in contact once […]

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Should She Tell Men She’s Vanilla In Bed?

March 16th, 2015

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Jasmine : Comment: I’m wondering if you or your readers have any suggestions for being upfront about sexual preferences in dating.  I’ve been finding a lot lately, that I’ll start talking to a guy online, think that we’re compatible in a lot of ways, then I eventually find […]

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Why Do So Many Guys Flake After One Date?

March 15th, 2015

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Name: Maria Age: 35 City: Brooklyn State: NY Comment: Hi, I am wondering if what happens to me is “normal” in the dating world here in NYC.  I am 35, on OKC and I get asked out a lot.  I meet an average of 3 guys per week, which some would consider lucky.  I think […]

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