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Here’s Why People Don’t Reply To Your OKCupid Messages

October 1st, 2012

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Below is an actual email that one of my Profile Review clients sent to a woman on OKCupid. Allow me to point out just why an email like this is a big mistake. [Printed with his permission.] Hey there, XXXXXX (Hey! Like the Katy Perry song!) So, I’m not that good at writing emails to […]

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The Real Reason Men Should Pay The Tab On A First Date

September 25th, 2012

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Name: Kevin Age: 43 State: NJ Question: After a year of online dating I have decided the best first dates are coffee dates because of the low cost and casual, quiet atmosphere. There is one place in particular that I try to meet my first dates at. Every time I suggest it, they never heard […]

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Signs That He Is An Insufferable Egomaniac

September 17th, 2012

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Ladies, keep these in mind when you’re reading a man’s profiles.   1. Any reference to his fitness level.- Too many mentions of working out can have one of two results. You’ll either come off narcissistic or you’ll scare off people who might think they aren’t active or healthy enough for you. I tend to […]

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Dating Profile Review – How Come She Doesn’t Get Any Dates?

September 14th, 2012

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Name Jemima J Profile URL: http://www.okcupid.com/profile/TamaraR What Has Your Experience Been With This Profile?: Ever since I changed it to bitchy mode I get at least one email per day but nothing resulting in dates.  Before, I had a straight to the point “This is Me” profile.  I got one date.  It went no where.  […]

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Red Flag #565 That He Was Never Interested In The First Place

September 10th, 2012

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From Nerve.com’s Confessions: Been talking to this guy online for 2 days. We talked about meeting. He insisted I come to his house and watch a movie and hang out. I don’t feel comfortable coming to his house because I’ve never met this guy before and don’t know him very well. He said I should […]

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Why Do We Need To Catch Men In The Act Rather Than Just Walk Away?

August 29th, 2012

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I just got lucky……..   Great Looking guy on Match….smooth, Hermes ties, great neighborhood, all the right credentials, very interested, bla, bla!   He sent me his phone #.  My inner voice told me to Google the hell out of him.   Good thing I did.  He sent me his office # and his first name.  (Not the […]

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Decoding DTF Speak

August 22nd, 2012

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Cruising for casual sex or casual relationships on the internet ain’t easy.  There’s a lot of decoding and deciphering that needs to be done. “So…what are you looking for?” To their credit, most men won’t just come out and say that they just want to have sex with a woman. They’ll hint. Translation: Wanna f*ck? […]

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Servicey! – How To Meet People Offline

August 14th, 2012

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I was reading this blog post this morning about Match.com’s newly rolled out Stir Events. But I want to try something new. I’m so over online dating (for now), speed dating makes my skin crawl (sorry but it does) and most singles events are poorly produced and/or aimed at youngins. Let’s talking about getting offline. […]

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This Is How To Get Past The First Date

August 7th, 2012

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Name: Cheerios Age: 33 State: NY Question: So here’s my latest dating gripe. A guy from an online dating site wrote me and immediately wanted to exchange numbers. I’m down for that since I’m a fan of meeting up as soon as possible to test the chemistry waters. We exchanged two emails, and then spoke […]

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Profile Review – Pretty But Aggravated

August 6th, 2012

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Out of 100 sent emails to men that I am interested in maybe 20 emailed me back. Out of the 20 maybe I’ve met 1 in person. I have even asked a gentleman that I was interested in to critique my profile…he wrote back to me that my profile was great and I was beautiful […]

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