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How To Get The People You Want To Date To View Your Profile & Write To You

April 26th, 2013

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If you open your profile with “Okay, Ladies…” I will go out with you just so I can punch you in the nut sack. #okcupid — ATWYSingle (@ATWYSingle) April 24, 2013   1. Don’t roll out the Welcome mat – Opening your About Me section with some sort of greeting is a waste. You’re taking […]

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Do Men Consider Women In Their 40’s Relationship Material?

April 24th, 2013

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Name: NB Comment: Moxie, I’m a 40 yo single woman who has usually had a boyfriend, hence, I just started online dating about 5 months ago. Needless to say, it has been a disappointing and discouraging experience. I’ve never proactively dated, so I’m on the naive side. I do look 6-10 years younger,(and yes, I […]

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How to Avoid Looking Like a Creep On OKCupid (This Applies To Men AND Women)

April 14th, 2013

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I have been a huge advocate of the dating site OKCupid for some times now. I like the functionality, I like the questions and I like that it’s free (though I pay for it.) You’re not shooting off messages to a bunch of people who very well might not be paid members and therefore can’t […]

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Online Dating: What’s So Bad About Winks, Flirts & Favorites?

April 9th, 2013

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Name: Jessica Comment: Hi: I’ve been online dating for a while and went some dates already. Recently a guy favorited me and I sent him a wink back. Then we started talking via emails. So far we have exchanged 5 or 6 emails already over almost two weeks but he still doesn’t ask me out […]

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The Dangers of The Faux-lationship

April 8th, 2013

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Name: Tom  Comment: Hi, I’m a gay guy, middle aged, I had taken myself off the dating market for several years due to depression issues,etc.  I finally got on a good antidepressant, moved back to my dream city and decided to engage in life.  I started online dating.  A guy from another city found my […]

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Online Dating: How Much Rejection Is Normal?

March 31st, 2013

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Name: Maria Age: 35 City: Brooklyn State: NY Comment: Hi, I am wondering if what happens to me is “normal” in the dating world here in NYC.  I am 35, on OKC and I get asked out a lot.  I meet an average of 3 guys per week, which some would consider lucky.  I think […]

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Should He Let Go of His Desire To Have Kids?

March 27th, 2013

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Name: Brian City: New York City State: NY Comment: My divorce became final a few months and I’d like to start dating again. Since I would like to have biological children I prefer to date women between who are early to mid thirties. I’m upfront about this in my OK Cupid profile but find I […]

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How Do You Define Long Term Dating, Short Term Dating & Casual Sex

March 26th, 2013

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So…how do you define each of the three main relationship options on OKCupid? Here are my definitions. Short Term Dating: Open ended dating and consistent sex without exclusivity. Casual Sex: Let’s meet up and do it. Long Term Dating: Serious relationship leading to commitment i.e. exclusivity or marriage.   Next question: If someone selects casual […]

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Would You Use Someone For A Free Meal/Sex?

March 24th, 2013

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XOJane published yet another article that showcases the distorted rationalizations that many people lean on when acting like assholes. Read it, then let’s discuss both the article and the following quote: All women engage in this.  And, every guy you know is doing the same thing – dangling the possibility of commitment to women in […]

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Thanks, But No Thanks – Do You Respond If You’re Not Interested?

March 22nd, 2013

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The other night a profile review client asked me how she should handle the following situation. She had sent an email to a guy on OK Cupid. All she said, per my instructions, was that she enjoyed his profile and that he should shoot her a message if he wanted to chat. His response: Hey […]

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