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Stop Relying On Men For Security

April 19th, 2016

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Name: Sharon : Question: I am a 55 year old woman dating a never married 62 year old man.  We met on match four years ago and have been dating ever since.  He has a grown son. I have two children in college. Since we began dating, I have learned that this “divorced” man has […]

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The #1 Sign You’ve Met A Player

April 17th, 2016

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  Name: Nicole : Question: ok, so I met this guy on 03/26/16.. I was out with a couple of friends of mine and on the way home he caught my attention at a stop light.. he seemed decent so I didn’t mind exchanging numbers.. on that Sunday afternoon I was extremely bored and decided […]

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This Just In: It’s Okay To Not Be Desperate For a Man

April 13th, 2016

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  Name: Lily : Question: Hi there– Long time reader, recently back on the dating scene and just dipping my toe into things again. I met a promising guy online and contacted him, and he was johnny on the spot emailing me back-. We traded emails and then switched to IM for a couple days […]

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Should She Stick With The Separated Guy Or Nah?

March 16th, 2016

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Name: Tiffany Anne : Question: I’m a 45 year-old woman, divorced about 3 years.  I have been actively looking to find a long-term partner; not necessarily marriage, just someone to be in a committed relationship with.  After sifting through pretty much every single online dating site for the past couple of years, I met this […]

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Signs Your Online Date Isn’t Who They Say They Are

March 15th, 2016

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Name: Mari : Question: Hi, I know you have talked about the problems of too much texting before meeting, but this is different (I think). I met a guy on OKC. He seems to be pretty good… Educated, same political/religious views, owns a business and a home, super athletic, loves dogs, is a musician, yada […]

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Did He Plan On Sticking Her With The Bill All Along?

February 24th, 2016

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): nb1972 Comment: I joined OKC a week ago. I’ve been on 3 dates, two with men who added about 5 in to their height, but were otherwise good for an hour of chat so the dates weren’t a total loss. And yes, I realize this is the norm, […]

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Do You Know What Red Flags You Give Off?

February 18th, 2016

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    Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Michelle : Comment: I met a guy on Ok cupid. He is 36, divorced and has a 14 year old son. We went on 5 dates and things seemed to be going in the right direction. We both stated within the first couple of dates that […]

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Stop Telling Women Crazy Is Cute

February 5th, 2016

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Here’s an article from NY Magazines The Cut that I’d like to discuss. Step One: Resolve to Die Alone. Step Two: Get Married. Now, it’s literally impossible for me to take anything Mandy says at face value because every moment of every day she’s trying to spin her dismal life choices into something heroic or […]

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Is She Just a Pound Town Pit Stop On His Way To Girlfriendville?

February 4th, 2016

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Name: Nicole Age: 32 State: Vu Question: Dear Moxie — I have a question about online dating and exclusivity that’s sort of tangentially related to your most recent piece on whether or not first-date sex is always the kiss of death. My specific question may be a topic you’ve covered in a previous blog, but […]

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Who’s The Bigger Creep: Him or Her?

January 29th, 2016

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Michelle : Comment: Hi Moxie:  I’m a 53-year-old female and I’ve been dating my current boyfriend for about 18 months.  ‘Brian’ is 58 and we’ve both been divorced a few years.  We’ve had a couple of minor rough spots in our relationship the last year and a half, […]

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