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Is He Just Keeping Her On The Hook?

April 21st, 2016

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Name: Danielle : Question: Good Afternoon, Currently, I am in a relationship with a man older than me, by 16 years. He is 45 and I am 29. Before we first got together (we were acquaintances previously) we had many discussions about what we wanted from relationships- i.e. marriage, children, lifestyles, etc. We have been […]

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Stop Relying On Men For Security

April 19th, 2016

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Name: Sharon : Question: I am a 55 year old woman dating a never married 62 year old man.  We met on match four years ago and have been dating ever since.  He has a grown son. I have two children in college. Since we began dating, I have learned that this “divorced” man has […]

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The #1 Sign You’ve Met A Player

April 17th, 2016

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  Name: Nicole : Question: ok, so I met this guy on 03/26/16.. I was out with a couple of friends of mine and on the way home he caught my attention at a stop light.. he seemed decent so I didn’t mind exchanging numbers.. on that Sunday afternoon I was extremely bored and decided […]

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This Just In: It’s Okay To Not Be Desperate For a Man

April 13th, 2016

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  Name: Lily : Question: Hi there– Long time reader, recently back on the dating scene and just dipping my toe into things again. I met a promising guy online and contacted him, and he was johnny on the spot emailing me back-. We traded emails and then switched to IM for a couple days […]

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How Does She Ditch Her Creepy Boyfriend?

April 4th, 2016

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Name: Amie : Question: I am a 44-year-old mother of four, three still at home. A 21-year-old son, 19-year-old son from first marriage and 8-year-old daughter from my second marriage. I went through a difficult divorce from second husband roughly five years ago, and within the same year of our separation, my first husband (ex) […]

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Revenge Blogging Always Backfires

March 17th, 2016

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Two articles from xoJane have me riveted. Let’s discuss this one first. IT HAPPENED TO ME: Donald Trump Ruined My Relationship I’ll start by saying that this essay feels to me like a piggy back on Mandy Stadtmiller’s similar post for The Cut from two weeks ago. I don’t care for Mandy, but let’s give […]

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Should She Stick With The Separated Guy Or Nah?

March 16th, 2016

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Name: Tiffany Anne : Question: I’m a 45 year-old woman, divorced about 3 years.  I have been actively looking to find a long-term partner; not necessarily marriage, just someone to be in a committed relationship with.  After sifting through pretty much every single online dating site for the past couple of years, I met this […]

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Signs Your Online Date Isn’t Who They Say They Are

March 15th, 2016

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Name: Mari : Question: Hi, I know you have talked about the problems of too much texting before meeting, but this is different (I think). I met a guy on OKC. He seems to be pretty good… Educated, same political/religious views, owns a business and a home, super athletic, loves dogs, is a musician, yada […]

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No, Dating Is NOT Like An Interview

March 14th, 2016

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Name: Naima : Question: Hi! I’ve checked out your blog and see that you recommend not to include what you’re looking for on a dating profile. But I’m curious, what do you think is the best response when a date outright asks what you’re looking for? I get this question often and I find it […]

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Did He Plan On Sticking Her With The Bill All Along?

February 24th, 2016

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): nb1972 Comment: I joined OKC a week ago. I’ve been on 3 dates, two with men who added about 5 in to their height, but were otherwise good for an hour of chat so the dates weren’t a total loss. And yes, I realize this is the norm, […]

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