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Is His Financial Situation Really The Problem?

October 4th, 2012


Name: V. Age: 50 State: Question: I’m an attractive, well-educated, debt-free 50 year-old widow who’s childless (by choice), that’s been seeing a man for 3.5 years. Nearly all of this time he was legally separated–4 months ago he finally divorced, amicably. He has two children, a 13 year old and a freshman in college. I’m […]

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Beware The Man With a Savior Complex

May 9th, 2012


Name: AJ Age: 59 State: Illinois Question: I’d like to call this “The guy who wanted a Roommate With Benefits”. I have never ran into a guy like this until now and I thought it might be interesting sharing with your readers. First I have to preface this with I’m a 59 year old female. […]

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Renting vs. Owning – What’s Really Involved With Living Together?

May 1st, 2012


Boyfriend and I want to buy an apartment together. I asked my parents for a loan. They said they’d help me buy a place of my own but not one with him. They said I’m too young and haven’t been dating him long enough for me to make such an investment and that it’s too […]

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He Said/She Said – Men, Ultimatums & Who Wears The Pants?

March 28th, 2012


More questions from our He Said/She Said event: Regarding online dating, why do men email only through the dating site & NEVER ask for your personal email? There are several possible answers to this: 1. They don’t want to end up in a pen pal relationship. I read so many profiles where the men state […]

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Should He Stay or Should He Go?

March 28th, 2012


Name: Peter State: NY Age: Early40′s Comment: Simple question and I’m interested to hear what your readers have to say. In a relationship for 2yrs and living together for 8 months. Girlfriend just cheated with an ex and says she’s sorry, realizes it was a mistake, and wants to work through this. Wondering how someone […]

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What’s Your Dating Timetable?

February 16th, 2012


Here’s another question from our He Said/She Said event the other night. Ladies, do you have a timetable in your mind on how long you want to date before you move in or get married?   I think there are a lot of factors involved with this like age, relationship goals AND relationship history. If […]

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How Do You Know If It’s a Real Relationship?

January 18th, 2012


Name: chuckrock State: new york Age: 35 Comment: Hi Moxie, After a brief hiatus, I started reading the blog again and it has prompted me to send in a question for your review and dissection. One of the reasons I had stopped reading a few months ago was because it was clear to me the […]

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Beware The Man Who Commits Too Soon

January 15th, 2012


Name: Carina State: Florida Age: 32 Comment: Moxie, I moved to Florida last August from NYC.  Dating here has been great!  So much better than in NYC I have to say. I dated a few guys my first few months here and then I met a great guy 1st week of December.  We hit it […]

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Are You Afraid to Lose (Or Reveal) Your True Yourself In Your Relationship?

October 3rd, 2011


Name: material marriage State: IL Age: 29 Comment: I’m currently in a committed relationship with someone I see a future with. We’ve both discussed marriage and are on the same page regarding spending, children, etc. My questions is: should we combine our finances before a solid marriage is official? I’m personally uncomfortable with this idea […]

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What To Expect When You’re Expecting To Live Together

July 21st, 2011


Here’s the scenario: You and the person you’re sating decide to move in together. They suggest you move in with them. The apartment where they lived was also the apartment they shared with their previous partner. Do you move in to that space and make enough changes to erase memories of the previous inhabitant or […]

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