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The Dangers of Making Your Relationship The Center Of Your World #atwys

July 21st, 2014


Mandy over at xoJane wrote a post recently that has incited a shit storm in the comments. I mean, come on. The same way if I post some humblebraggy crap about my career (who is my husband), it is the exact same thing as your smug profile pic in your $50,000 wedding gown making out […]

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So I Finally Tried Tinder

February 16th, 2014


A few days ago I decided to step into 2014 and try Tinder. All of my 40 and older male friends swear by it. The reviews by women I know, however, have been a little less glowing. I resisted for a long time because I assumed that Tinder just wasn’t a viable option for a […]

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Should She Be Embarrassed To Date a Younger Man?

September 26th, 2013


Comment: Okay so I’ve been dating this 23 y.o. now for over a 30 day period and I must say it is unexpectedly one of the best dating experiences I have had in freaking years…we don’t see each other every day but shoot each other a “good morning text”, maybe shoot each other a line […]

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Should He Let Go of His Desire To Have Kids?

March 27th, 2013


Name: Brian City: New York City State: NY Comment: My divorce became final a few months and I’d like to start dating again. Since I would like to have biological children I prefer to date women between who are early to mid thirties. I’m upfront about this in my OK Cupid profile but find I […]

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How Open Minded Are You?

March 20th, 2013


Name: Amanda Age: 45 City: Hicksville State: NY Comment: Dear Moxie:  I went out with this guy and we hit it off great, he is 41 I am 45.  During the course of the night we had a conversation about piercings and tattoo’s.  I have none but he has nipple rings.  I was immediately turned […]

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How Long Should You Wait For The Second Date?

March 17th, 2013


Name: Scott Age: 30 City: New York State: NY Comment: So I’ve decided to get back on the sauce and once again use a fairly popular, well-known internet dating website that’s free…Yes, I’ve been going out with a few women, with mixed success, and thankfully enjoying the experience for the most part without getting too […]

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The Dating Games Are Over, Folks

March 6th, 2013


Name: J Comment: Hey Moxie, I think I already know your thoughts on the subject, but I’ve been having a rather heated debate with friends recently and it seems we’re largely undecided when all opinions are weighed.  Since we can’t come to an agreement, I thought I’d pass the topic on to you for consideration. […]

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Dealing With The Passive Aggressive Email Dater

February 13th, 2013


  When is it okay to say something about how long it takes for a guy to respond to a text or email? I’ve been out with the guy in question twice. He sometimes takes a whole day (as in 24 hrs) to reply to emails. – Georgia, 38, NYC   I’d need a little […]

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Dear Single Ladies…Stop Being So Difficult

July 27th, 2012


Name: Jose Age: 46 State: NY Question: I would like a woman’s perspective on this scenario. A woman contacted me on a dating website and we spoke on the phone after a couple of emails. She is 49 and never married. She lives in the Bronx and doesn’t have a car due to the availability […]

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How Do You Date Multiple People With An Active Dating Profile?

July 15th, 2012


Name: Scott Age: 30 State: NY Question: I’ve been out about 6 times with this girl I met through an internet dating website, and while I’m really enjoying my time spent with her and look forward to seeing her each time, I’ll still check the dating website for messages from other women. I’ve paid up […]

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