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How To Not Win Friends & Influence People

April 5th, 2012


The other day we talked about getting stuck at the same point in the dating process over and over. Usually this occurs when it comes to dealing with what we perceive as conflict or resistance from the other person. As much as many of us would like to get that person on the phone or […]

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Could You Master The Master Manipulator?

March 22nd, 2011


Name: NERDgirl  |  | Location: Atlanta , GA |Question: First I’ll start with background info: over the past 2 years a male friend and I have gotten closer, hanging out, spending time at each other’s apartments, going on “dates” etc…We already expressed that we “liked” each other and clearly enjoyed spending time with one another. […]

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Guess What? Men Can Be Steaming Plates of “Crazy,” Too

February 28th, 2011


Photo Credit If a man has a psycho ex (or exes), he either has a taste for crazy women…or he does things that drive normal women insane.  Either way, it doesn’t bode well for you. – Aldonza “Someone who would do this, make this kind of effort, is pissed off or really, really desperate to […]

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I Didn’t Mean to Lead You On..Or Did I?

February 7th, 2011


If your actions have caused someone to believe in your continued interest, then you need to take responsibility for that, not blame the other person for trusting you too soon. You can blame the victim all you want, but that’s just an excuse to be a douchebag. – Paula You can’t force someone to be […]

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The Illusionist

January 20th, 2011


Name: Elle  | Location: New York , New York |Question: Hi Moxie. I need some advice. I met this guy, Mark, through a mutual friend at Mark’s New Year’s Eve party. Mark likes to take pictures of others (and pics of himself with others) at his parties and he took a pic of me with […]

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