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Is Dating Broken?

May 22nd, 2017

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I decided last night that we’d no longer organize speeddating events. Ever since Meetup updated their policy and disavowed speeddating events, filling them has been a struggle, never more so than over the last few months.  As I said last week to another woman who organizes speeddating events who has also complained of a slow-down, […]

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To F*ck or Not To F*ck: That Is The Question

May 12th, 2017

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  There are a number of reasons why I’ve bailed out of dating and writing a dating column, the primary one being that dating gave me agita.  The whole process of messaging  then meeting then performing like a seal with a ball on my nose for a stranger completely fills me with dread. The sense […]

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Is Online Dating/Tinder/Bumble Still A Thing?

May 10th, 2017

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I’m curious to hear if people are still using Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid, etc. From the conversations I’ve had with people over the last couple of months, it seems like there’s a universal ennui of sorts floating around when it comes to online dating. What’s your story? Are yous still giving online dating a try?

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How Do You Find a Man When You’re an Unconventional Woman?

March 26th, 2017

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I find myself wanting to get out more and be around people. I joined a few Fitness-related Meetups, but was disheartened to see that I was one of the few “older” members. I suppose I could start a fitness group for 35+ members, but I know it will end up being mostly women that join. […]

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Are Tinder, OKCupid, and Bumble a Waste of Time?

February 20th, 2017

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  Name: OKWTF Question: Is OKCupid finished as a dating site?  I reactivated after a two year hiatus and I’ve noticed the site has taken a dramatic downhill turn.  I was using Tinder and Bumble but I didn’t feel those apps gave me enough space to flesh out my personality (and learn more about a […]

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How Do You Avoid Dating a Liberal/Conservative?

February 17th, 2017

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There’s really nothing like matching with someone on Tinder or OKCupid only to discover through messaging that they vote with your opposing political party. While how one identifies politically has always been a bone of contention, never has the issue been more volatile than it is today. As I swiped through profiles yesterday, I came […]

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Why Dating Profiles & Social Media Don’t Mix

February 15th, 2017

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  Name: Riley : Question: Hi Moxie. I know you’re not that crazy about using Tinder as an online dating platform; but I am mulling over the idea of returning to it, and I have a quick question. What are your thoughts on giving your snapchat username in your Tinder bio? When I’ve used Tinder […]

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Stop Letting Strange Men Talk Dirty To You

January 23rd, 2017

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If there’s one thing I’ve noticed in my 10+ years as a business owner, it’s that I get a hell of a lot less push back when I use the masculine (or assumed masculine) spellings of my name. (Chris, Christan.)  Through out my life I have been addressed as Christian. Even when I fill out […]

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Why Do They Swipe Yes But Not Reply?

December 1st, 2016

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  Name: Double-Dip : Question: Hi Moxie, I’m a plus size gal looking to get dating experience. I’ve been on Match, OK Cupid, and Tinder, and Bumble on and off with 0 success. I know this is a combination of not being into the guys that match with me (a lot of creeps because of […]

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Worst Online Dating Advice EVER

October 19th, 2016

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I don’t know what trust funder turned dating coach/red pill loser/rapey PUA dude is out there advising people to do this, but it has to stop. I must get at least two of these types of messages a week. Guess what? There is no mistake in my profile. Even if I thought there were, I […]

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