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Is He a Douche or Is She Being Petty?

March 13th, 2018

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  Name: Tired of games : Question: I’m a 45 year-old single man and I’ve always had decent success meeting women, online and offline. However, over the past few months a similar situation occurred with three different women, and I’d like to know if my actions and expectations were unreasonable. Here’s the most recent scenario: […]

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Why Did He Go From Hot to Cold?

December 13th, 2017

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This story was told to me. I’m paraphrasing. Last week I had what I would call a perfect date with a guy I met on Tinder.  Drinks led to appetizers led to going back to my place and having sex for three hours. I woke up to a text from him saying he had a […]

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Has Being Single Gotten Lonelier?

December 1st, 2017

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  Name: betty : Question: After reading your column The #1 Way To Look Like a Creep On Tinder & OKCupid, I was reminded of a date I went on where there was mutual disinterest. Days later I received a very long text about why he was disinterested, how he wasn’t attracted to me, yada […]

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The #1 Way To Look Like a Creep On Tinder & OKCupid

November 28th, 2017

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The other morning, I woke up to a message request on Facebook. It was from a man that had seen my profile on Tinder and decided to bypass the system, find me on Facebook via our mutual friend’s profile, and message me there.  I took one look at the message and its length and blocked […]

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Why Doesn’t Online Dating Work For Him?

September 11th, 2017

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Name: Akira I’m a straight guy living in LA and I’ve been on and off Okcupid and other dating apps for the better part of four years. I can’t say I’ve ever had a single ‘long term’ relationship from it at all. I’ve had many dates over the years and have managed to have a […]

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Should She Date Him Even Though There’s No Chemistry?

August 30th, 2017

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  Name: Whey : Question: Hello! So this is a relatively unique situation. I’m was not actively seeking for a relationship or anything physical but I ended up getting Tinder a while ago. My friend nagged me so I agreed to get it but on the condition that I would only be there to goof […]

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I’m Tired of Messaging. How Come Nobody Wants To Meet Anymore?

August 22nd, 2017

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On my way to the gym I unmatched all six matches in my Tinder inbox. Then I went to OKCupid and hid my profile. In the past two weeks I’ve made five matches on Tinder and one on OKCupid. Not one of them resulted in an offline date. Every single one of them faded. To […]

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Dating When You Feel Less Than

August 7th, 2017

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I hate being unmatched on Tinder. Hate it.  You get the little push notification of a mutual match, you swipe on it to get to your inbox annnnddd….they’re gone.  The only worse feeling is getting the match notification, giving it a few minutes to allow them the time to swipe through your photos and unmatch […]

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What Is Your OKCupid, Tinder & Bumble Match Rate?

June 15th, 2017

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Speaking of men and relationships, I still have my OKCupid profile up, but I foresee it being disabled by the end of the week. The rejection is doing a job on my psyche.  I do not get one response to the emails I send out. Not one. But then, I respond to literally zero of […]

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Are You “Just The Tip” Dating?

June 1st, 2017

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Name: Annabelle : Question: I’m late to the online dating game. I’m 50, cute but not gorgeous, and been doing online dating with moderate success for only about two years. So, I don’t know what’s normal and not normal. Lately, something weird has been happening. Men who contact me first will ask me out, or […]

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