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Is It Better To Be Friends Before Lovers?

December 8th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Merdeilleux Comment: Friends first? I’ve taken two different approaches to dating – The first, where things are very casual, little to no expectations.  We get to know each other over a longer period of time and then decide to date.  (Typical for real world/friend of friends) The second is approach the first meeting/date [...]

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The Savvy Dater: Don’t Bother Telling Them Off. They Don’t Care.

November 30th, 2013

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Tweet Right after my sister died, I reached out to a friend, P.  P. and I met on OKC a few years back. At the time he was living with his Dad in his Park Avenue apartment having recently broken up with his girlfriend and was “in between” places. That was something I learned on [...]

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It’s Time To Stop Making Male Approval So Important

November 12th, 2013

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Tweet This article over at The Frisky made my head explode. Dear Single Friends, We haven’t seen a lot of you lately. And when we have, there have been strained exchanges and tense subtext. We can see you stifling an eye roll when we bring up our S.O.’s name. So we stopped bringing up his [...]

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Quotes of The Day – Aug. 18, 2013

August 18th, 2013

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Tweet Power is being told you are not loved and not being destroed by it. – Madonna

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Crowd Sourcing: Would You Go To a Speeddating Event To Meet an FWB?

March 1st, 2013

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Tweet I’ve been toying with this idea for awhile and I think I’m ready to go forward with it this month. Picture it: A speeddating event for people looking for short term dating. Also known as casual dating. Also known as Friends With Benefits.We’d target it towards newly single men and women ages 30-45. While [...]

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Dating, Darwin And Supply & Demand

January 26th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Anon Age: 37 State: UK Question: I read your recent post about all the single ladies fighting over the same man, and the comments that ensued. One comment got buried, which I thought would be interesting for you and your regulars to address: January 21, 2013 at 7:54 am “The problem isn’t that [...]

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The Uninvited Guest – If Your Ex Writes a Blog, Should You Read It?

January 2nd, 2013

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Tweet The tweet popped up in my feed one Sunday morning. It was a link to that Sunday’s Modern Love column. “When an Ex Blogs, Should You Read?” As a blogger who writes about dating and relationships for a living, my answer is…it depends. Let’s look at it another way. Let’s say your Ex was [...]

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Ladies, Stop Rationalizing Yourself Single

October 17th, 2012

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Tweet Name: Sally Age: 22 State: California Question: So, I know that the beginning of this does not sound healthy and that is not what my question is about. I have moved past that.  I met this guy. We talked over the phone and via Skype a couple weeks and then we went on a [...]

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Why It’s Important To Know Your Dating Audience

July 20th, 2012

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Tweet Name: Michael Question: I’m 48 and divorced for about 3 years. My question is simple, why is it that women in my age group and status (divorced w/ kids) are such head cases when it comes to dating and sex. One would think that having been divorced w/ kids they “know the drill,” but [...]

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Spot & Avoid The Shady Daters & Time Wasters

June 25th, 2012

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Tweet You know the drill. You had a great few dates with a man or woman you just met, everything seems to be going well and then – BAM! – they either fade, turn out to be dishonest or send you a Dear Jane/John text. What happened? Nothing. These people were going to Fade eventually. [...]

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