Archive | What It Means To Be a Single Woman Today RSS feed for this section

Never Give a Man More Credit Then He’s Earned

January 2nd, 2017

15 Comments

Name: Anabelle : Question: I recently met this amazing guy at a party. After talking to him all night until 5am and having a blast, we went back to his place and of course, hooked up. It was amazing! We stayed up all night talking too.. about our favorite books, favorite breweries and all our […]

Share
Continue reading...

Forever Young

December 30th, 2016

7 Comments

Welp, it’s that time again. In less than twenty-four hours I will turn forty-eight. Yikes. Forty-eight. Yeah, yeah. Age is just a number and all that, but still. For the first time in many years, I skipped a period this month. No, I’m not pregnant.  I’m like 99% sure it’s perimenopause.  I mean, yeah, all […]

Share
Continue reading...

Man or No Man, You Have a Purpose

December 26th, 2016

4 Comments

  I’ve written before about giving up online dating because of the low return on investment. I stated that I’d be focusing more on projects over which I had more control. I eventually dipped my toe back into the OKCupid pool and was met with such resounding rejection that I have once again disabled my […]

Share
Continue reading...

Is She Coming Off Too Desperate?

November 3rd, 2016

18 Comments

Name: Jennifer : Question: I have been single for about 7 years; the guy was a drug addict, fresh out of prison, who cheated on other girls with me (while dating a bunch of them at the same time), lied (he was really 33, but said he was 26 – a 15 year age difference […]

Share
Continue reading...

Can You Be Single And Still Live a Full Life?

September 25th, 2016

12 Comments

Note: I previously wrote this for another website right after my father died. I’ve never published it here. I have a playlist on my phone labeled “Story of My Life.” Included on this list are songs that I’ve always found to encapsulate various tipping points in my life. One of these songs is “Being Alive” […]

Share
Continue reading...

Dear Dudes: Nobody Asked For Your Opinion On Our Bodies

August 9th, 2016

29 Comments

Here’s an article making the rounds on Facebook http://www.littlethings.com/michelle-tinder-date-text/   From the article: Michelle went home excited about her date. She could tell it was successful and that the two had pretty good chemistry. But the next day, Michelle was stunned when her date from the previous night sent her a text message. She wasn’t […]

Share
Continue reading...

Why Some People Suck Less At Online Dating

July 22nd, 2016

4 Comments

  A recent study published in the journal Social Network Analysis and Mining found men and women approach online dating differently, with men being more aggressive and less aware of their true attractiveness, and women being more self-conscious. “We found that males like to send a lot of messages to attractive female users, but they […]

Share
Continue reading...

What’s Wrong With Banging 22 Year Olds From Tinder?

June 19th, 2016

29 Comments

          Name: Roberta : Question: Hi Moxie, I am in my 40’s, and have been married for 12 years. I have a question that is more about friendship. About a year ago, a woman transferred into my department. She is very beautiful – she is 39 but looks not a day […]

Share
Continue reading...

What’s Wrong With Chasing A Guy?

May 11th, 2016

54 Comments

  Name: Maria : Question: I was reading an article from a so called dating expert titled, ‘Are you chasing him and don’t even know it?’ She wrote in her article that if the woman initiates any kind of contact with a guy, as in asking him how he feels, inviting him to come over, […]

Share
Continue reading...

Why Do Men Get Away With Being Assholes?

April 25th, 2016

51 Comments

Name: Dragon Lady : Question: Hey Moxie, I’ve been a longtime reader of your blog and have become a big fan of most of your advice over the years- you’re just about always right in your advice columns!  Perhaps this question is burnout related. I’ve been online dating in a major Northeastern city for a […]

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...
Share
Continue reading...

© 2013-2017 And That's Why You're Single All Rights Reserved