One On One Profile Review

It’s my personal belief that dating in 2018 will become exponentially more difficult (if that’s possible) than previous years. Dating sites and apps have made us all commodities – products, if you will. Prospective buyers now only look at the packaging, giving the insides and disclosures a quick peek if they feel extra motivated. It’s hard not to feel interchangeable – disposable even – when treated that way.

​Our collective self-esteem has taken a vicious beating after using these platforms. Why?

​Thanks to the game-like nature of Tinder and Bumble, the flake factor has sky-rocketed. People get one match, then see if they can get two. Or three. Or ten. Messages go unanswered; conversations get abandoned. We raise and lower our hopes over and over again, creating a mistrust in and fatigue with the process.Ironically, the only way to have success utilizing these mediums is to stick with it. But how? How does a person muster the energy and vulnerability to put themselves through this time and again?

​That’s where I come in.

​After close to a decade organizing singles events, seven years writing a dating advice column, and five years helping people craft  eye-catching and date-getting dating profiles, I’d like to think of myself as a valuable resource.

​Let me help you push through the blocks and re-fuel. I understand the desire to want to shut down all your profiles and commit to a life of celibacy. Trust me. I get it. Let’s talk and try to find a way for you to enjoy dating again while at the same time conserving your time, happiness, and well-being.

​I offer the following services:

​$45 – One on One Profile Review

This session will be done by teleconference. (No extra charges apply.) In this 45 minute session, we will review your OKCupid or dating profile and one additional dating app profile.If you would like to have two profiles reviewed, the session will cost $65.

 What’s included:

  • A complete review of profile text to spot minor grammatical tweaks and possible red flags that might be preventing you from getting more responses.

  • A complete review of your current photos to ensure they are eye-catching and appropriate. You’ll also be able to email me other pics that you might wish to use.

  • A compelling 200-300 word bio for dating apps like Tinder.

  • An “ins and outs” summary of how to manage your profile to keep it fresh, effective search criteria to see and bee seen by more people, and successful email messaging strategies to prevent dealing with flakes and faders.

​​​$35 – One on One Session About a Specific Issue

There’s so much confusion and mixed messaging involved with dating nowadays. People run hot and cold and then hot again in the span of a month. This 30 minute session will be used to work through a specific interaction with someone you met online. This session will be done by teleconference. (No extra charges apply.) We can also do this via email if you prefer.



After you register, you will receive an email from me within a few hours to set-up your session time and to give you the call-in details.  Please note my session availability times:

Saturday 10am to 12pm and 6pm to 8pm

Sunday 10am to 12pm and 6pm to 8pm

Wednesdays 4pm to 7pm

Thursdays 4pm to 7pm

  • All registrations are final.

  • You may reschedule once. After that your session fee is non-refundable.

  • If you do not call in within 10 minutes of your scheduled session time, your session will be cancelled and no refunds will be provided.



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