Tag Archives: dating and finances

Why Doesn’t He Want To Live Together?

April 10th, 2016

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Name: Anne | | Location: Chicago , IL |Question: My boyfriend of a little over 2 years says he loves me, but is saying and doing some things that make me doubt his commitment to me.  I had a talk with him about 3 months ago and told him that I really think we have […]

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Did He Plan On Sticking Her With The Bill All Along?

February 24th, 2016

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): nb1972 Comment: I joined OKC a week ago. I’ve been on 3 dates, two with men who added about 5 in to their height, but were otherwise good for an hour of chat so the dates weren’t a total loss. And yes, I realize this is the norm, […]

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Is He Still In Love With His Ex?

July 20th, 2015

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Brazilian in NYC Comment: Hi Moxie! I wrote in a few months ago about making a choice between an officer and recent (undocumented) immigrant. Thanks for your advice! You were spot on about the officer, i stopped talking to him shortly after asking that question and continued with […]

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Dear Single Ladies: You Are Not The Unicorn You Think You Are

December 16th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): BringHimBack Comment: Hi Moxie, I want to clarify the feedback on my letter you called “Stop Expecting Men to Pay”. (Click here for her original letter.) I think I’m being judged a little harshly as you do not know the full story. The reason I was short of […]

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Where Are All The Financially Secure & Well Educated Single Men?

September 11th, 2014

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Name: Diane Age: 40 State: TX Question: I’m new to the dating world as I settled down with my high school bf, married(20+ yrs) and had children early. I’m newly divorced with very little dating experience. Where can I meet men who are professional, educated, and financially stable? I’ve seemingly only met men who are […]

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Do You Wait For Men To Earn Enough Money Before You Commit?

February 25th, 2014

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Name: Katie : Comment: As I near 30, having children become increasingly important to me. I’ve been dating my current boyfriend for 1.5 years. He is tall, hot, plays the guitar, we have many shared interests, and the same sense of humor. However, he makes half of my salary. (I work in a technical field […]

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Ambition, Stability, Wealth – What’s More Important In a Partner?

August 21st, 2013

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I was discussing the topic of merging households and finances with a friend the other night. I was asked if I would move in with someone who freelances versus works full time.  I said that I would date someone, either casually or seriously, who worked for themselves or freelanced, but that I would be very […]

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Would You Use Someone For A Free Meal/Sex?

March 24th, 2013

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XOJane published yet another article that showcases the distorted rationalizations that many people lean on when acting like assholes. Read it, then let’s discuss both the article and the following quote: All women engage in this.  And, every guy you know is doing the same thing – dangling the possibility of commitment to women in […]

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Online Dating & Income – How Much Do You Reveal?

March 5th, 2013

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I woke up to an email from a friend on Facebook. “I just got an email from a  woman on Match who asked if the lack of a stated income on my profile meant I was unemployed. Should I include my income?” Let’s think about this from a search perspective. When someone is choosing criteria […]

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Does How He Asks You Out & How Much He Spends Really Matter?

October 16th, 2012

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Yesterday one of my favorite dating-related columnists, Mandy , wrote an article for XOJane entitled, How to Ask Out a Woman if You Really Like Her, and Also How to F the S Out Of Her Brains. 2. Here’s the magic formula to ask a woman out. Do a firm, decisive ask. Not, “We should […]

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