Tag Archives: dating leagues

If You Want Love, You’re Gonna Have To Aim Lower

July 16th, 2016

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  Here’s a little food for thought for a rainy Saturday afternoon: In the comments of a recent post, DMN said this: If you manage to meet a guy “offline” it’s very likely to be a guy who also has an online profile on the apps or sites. It’s the same guys. The OPs question […]

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Do Men Really Want To Date Their Equal?

June 7th, 2016

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    Name: Joy : Comment: Moxie, this is not a personal dating question but it’s a topic I’m really curious about: You’ve touched upon these topics previously, but here goes. 1) Good looks: if all else being equal, are they really the trump card in dating? What if there are two women, one with […]

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How Do You Know If Someone Is Out of Your League?

January 7th, 2016

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  Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Confused : Comment: I get what you have been saying in your various posts about dating within your league. But how do you reconcile the need to be attracted to your mate and not lowering your self-esteem by dating someone you‘re not attracted to just to be […]

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How Do You Know If You’re Shooting Out Of Your League?

November 20th, 2014

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Name: AP Age: 38 Story: I haven’t actually seen this covered in your blog, but how do you discern “leagues”? As a woman, how do you determine who is and who isn’t in your league? I’m attractive & very fit by most people’s standards, do well professionally, extroverted/sociable, but I am also in my late […]

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If You Use Sex As a Lure, Don’t Be Surprised If That’s All They Want #atwys

July 26th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): blissix : Comment: I had a profile that had sort of a sexual tone to it, and I connected online with someone that I thought initially was a “player”: attractive, “high value” by Manhattan standards (37, lawyer, tall, athletic and aware of the fact (as he had mentioned […]

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Do Men Need To Be Attracted To A Woman To Have Sex With Her? #atwys

June 9th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Aly Comment: You’ve said in the past that men sometimes will have sex with women they are not attracted to. How do you know if they’re attracted to you or just pretending to be to have sex?  I know people will ask, I guess you could say I’m […]

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Do Your Coupled Friends Concern Troll You?

January 24th, 2014

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Name: Josie (Revised) : Comment: I’ve been friends with this woman since high school. She’s never had a boyfriend, and I haven’t been single in ages, so she seeks my advice on dating and I try my best to help, but I think I might have been saying the wrong things to her all along. […]

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Does Race Factor In To What Your Dating League Is?

August 12th, 2013

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Name: joy Comment: Hi Moxie, I don’t know if you’ll ever answer my question because it will surely open a can of worms, but here goes nothing. A little background about me; I’m a 28 year-old South-asian female (think India) living in a large metropolitan city in Canada, comparable to Chicago. I’m medium-dark, 5’3″ and […]

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