Tag Archives: dating over 40

Why Won’t He Offer To Help Pay Her Bills?

September 24th, 2017

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Name: Nicole : Question: I have been dating a man for almost 2.5 years.  We’ve had two breaks in our relationship that lasted less than 3 weeks.  The question I have is: this man knows I am in a financial strain right now.  I get paid based on commission and when he first met me […]

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Dating When You Feel Less Than

August 7th, 2017

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I hate being unmatched on Tinder. Hate it.  You get the little push notification of a mutual match, you swipe on it to get to your inbox annnnddd….they’re gone.  The only worse feeling is getting the match notification, giving it a few minutes to allow them the time to swipe through your photos and unmatch […]

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Can You Be Single And Still Live a Full Life?

September 25th, 2016

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Note: I previously wrote this for another website right after my father died. I’ve never published it here. I have a playlist on my phone labeled “Story of My Life.” Included on this list are songs that I’ve always found to encapsulate various tipping points in my life. One of these songs is “Being Alive” […]

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Signs You’re Dating An Insecure Guy

September 25th, 2016

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Name: Scared Comment: I am with this great boyfriend. He is a hardworking businessman, with a passion for fishing. We live 200 miles red flagsapart. He cares for me and spends a lot on buying me stuff. I met him online a couple of years ago, and we got close over the months. Problem was, […]

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What’s Wrong With Banging 22 Year Olds From Tinder?

June 19th, 2016

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          Name: Roberta : Question: Hi Moxie, I am in my 40’s, and have been married for 12 years. I have a question that is more about friendship. About a year ago, a woman transferred into my department. She is very beautiful – she is 39 but looks not a day […]

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Are 40+ Women Dating All Wrong? – UPDATED

June 17th, 2016

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Someone sent me a link to this article yesterday and I thought I’d post it here for discussion. http://nypost.com/2016/06/16/im-47-and-my-love-life-is-better-than-ever/ I have to admit that when I first read this I was all, “You go girl.” She was 47 years old and she’d left behind the fear of ending up alone and decided to just enjoy […]

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Can You Learn To Be Lonely?

June 15th, 2016

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I’m 42. I have never thought of myself as unattractive at all. I am slightly overweight, but still, I don’t think I’m hideous or ugly. I wear clothes well, and I have nice hair, etc. But I watch men….they Never. Look. At. Me. I watch them on the street — or wherever — and they […]

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Stop Relying On Men For Security

April 19th, 2016

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Name: Sharon : Question: I am a 55 year old woman dating a never married 62 year old man.  We met on match four years ago and have been dating ever since.  He has a grown son. I have two children in college. Since we began dating, I have learned that this “divorced” man has […]

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No Sex, No Exclusivity. Get It?

February 15th, 2016

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  Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): sexy : Comment: I met a guy on an online dating site . we have been dating consistently for about 6 weeks now and even have concert plans in 2 weeks.   He calls me regularly every day and texts me daily throughout the day .  He kisses […]

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Single Men Whine About Being Single, The Internet Yawns

January 8th, 2016

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A reader sent me this article yesterday and so I thought I’d link it here so y’all can discuss. It’s  a bunch of NYC-based dudes in their 30’s and 40’s whining about how they have baby fever and long for the stability of a relationship as though there’s just this dearth of women in NYC […]

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