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Reflections Of An Almost Fifty Year-Old Woman

April 26th, 2017

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People look at me or my photos and say I don’t look my age, but I do. This is what forty-eight looks like. I am by no means an anomaly. I look around that yoga studio every week and see women ten to twenty years my senior twisting and contorting themselves into shapes I only […]

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Add Stealthing To List of Things Women Have To Worry About

April 25th, 2017

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Here’s an article that addresses something that came up recently on this site. The Growing Movement of Men Who Secretly Remove Condoms During Sex Alexandra Brodsky, a legal fellow at the National Women’s Law Center and author of the study, spoke with a number of people, mostly women, who have experienced nonconsensual condom removal. While […]

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Nobody Cares How Big Your Dick Is, Bro

April 24th, 2017

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Let’s forget for a moment that this freakshow sought me out because I’ve written previously of being a size queen. #sorrynotsorry. My favorite part is how he offers to share a little bit about himself, but just continues to brag about the size of his dick as though that’s all I need to know before […]

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Why Are Women Judged For Pursuing Casual Sex?

April 21st, 2017

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I go on a date, things are going well, the attraction and arousal is present, but I keep that to myself. We pay the check and leave and the guy either offers to walk me home or he suggests going back to his place for a drink. I agree to either, still keeping my motivations […]

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A Matchmaker And a Misogynist Walk Into a Bar…

April 16th, 2017

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Their matchmaking business sounds like it exclusively caters to the male gaze, matching up rich men with beautiful women not for a relationship but for status. That’s what they’re selling, I think.  Not love. Not companionship. Certainly not marriage. (There’s a reason why there’s no Testimonials page on their website, folks.)  What the Spindels excel […]

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Why The “Hot” People In This Article Aren’t Worth Dating

April 13th, 2017

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  The NY Post never disappoints: Why Hot People Aren’t Worth Dating http://nypost.com/2017/04/12/why-hot-people-arent-worth-dating/ Let’s unpack this douchebaggery, shall we? “I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says [Dan] Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper West Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair. “I met some nice people, but realistically I went for […]

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Signs He’s An Abusive Asshole

April 10th, 2017

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  Name: Confused Question: So…I have been on a few dates with a man…he is 37, and I am 33. On our first date we met up for breakfast, but ended up hanging out together for the next 24 hours! He wanted to know everything about me in this time…my past relationships, family, what I […]

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How Does She Find Out If He’s Sleeping Around?

April 6th, 2017

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Name: a Question: Ok So I’ve been through enough long term relationships and break ups, and have been single now long enough to understand that sex with a man does NOT equal Relationship. At this point, I’ll be completely honest, emotionally, I don’t care if the guy I’m sleeping with is sleeping with anyone else, […]

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Where’s The Line Between Flirting and Harassment?

April 3rd, 2017

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First, I was embarrassed. Was Babyface being sarcastic when he told me I looked nice? Did I actually look ridiculous? Was I trying too hard? Should I wear looser clothes? Is it because I wear make-up that he thinks I’m looking for that kind of attention? All my worries boiled down to one premise: that […]

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He Wasn’t Angry or Assertive. He Was Just a Douche.

April 1st, 2017

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Friday came and went and this guy never followed up with me about tonight. I will bet any amount of money he was waiting for me to follow up with him. You know, to see how serious I was. Oh well. Guess I failed his second test. Let’s talk for a minute about how this […]

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