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Why Are Women Judged For Pursuing Casual Sex?

April 21st, 2017

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I go on a date, things are going well, the attraction and arousal is present, but I keep that to myself. We pay the check and leave and the guy either offers to walk me home or he suggests going back to his place for a drink. I agree to either, still keeping my motivations […]

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A Matchmaker And a Misogynist Walk Into a Bar…

April 16th, 2017

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Their matchmaking business sounds like it exclusively caters to the male gaze, matching up rich men with beautiful women not for a relationship but for status. That’s what they’re selling, I think.  Not love. Not companionship. Certainly not marriage. (There’s a reason why there’s no Testimonials page on their website, folks.)  What the Spindels excel […]

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Where’s The Line Between Flirting and Harassment?

April 3rd, 2017

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First, I was embarrassed. Was Babyface being sarcastic when he told me I looked nice? Did I actually look ridiculous? Was I trying too hard? Should I wear looser clothes? Is it because I wear make-up that he thinks I’m looking for that kind of attention? All my worries boiled down to one premise: that […]

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I Don’t Think Feminism Means What You Think It Means

March 13th, 2017

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This gif never gets old Here’s a nifty comment from this post that I thought you’d all appreciate. Feminism is about competing with men and denigrating the feminine characteristics that make a woman a Lady. Thus, feminists try to look like men, accentuating the vulgar, crude, ugly, undesirable traits that make them less appealing to […]

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Should She Travel The World Or Settle?

March 7th, 2017

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Question: Hi ATWYS, I posted this about 2 weeks ago, and I’m not sure if you got it, so I’m sending it again. I have been actively looking for a partner for two and a half years, and haven’t had a second date with anyone I felt good about. I approach dating on the basis […]

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Dear Dudes: Nobody Asked For Your Opinion On Our Bodies

August 9th, 2016

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Here’s an article making the rounds on Facebook http://www.littlethings.com/michelle-tinder-date-text/   From the article: Michelle went home excited about her date. She could tell it was successful and that the two had pretty good chemistry. But the next day, Michelle was stunned when her date from the previous night sent her a text message. She wasn’t […]

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Bumble & The Problem With “So What Do You Do?”

June 7th, 2016

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So, here’s a follow up article on that Bumble post from a few days ago.   Click the link up top to see the full exchange. Bumble did not misrepresent Connor when they called out his misogyny. But this message exchange proves that Bumble, well, wasn’t being  totally honest when they wrote that blog post […]

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Whateva, OKCupid – I’ll Do What I Want

December 10th, 2015

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    zodak Says: December 4th, 2015 at 4:28 pm e right, ignore the statistics about how men aren’t marrying anymore & pretend that it is girls who are choosing to stay single. even though she & you are still dating. nobody wants the type of girl you describe, and that’s why you’re single. i […]

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Dater X: Sips Tea & Yawns

December 8th, 2015

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New Dater X. I find myself completely unable to suspend disbelief at this point. She’s gone from no female friends to a ton of female friends, to being completely unable to pull a Tinder date to pulling, of all people, a bartender. I figured he was eager to get the hell out of there after […]

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Entitlement Works Both Ways, Bro

October 12th, 2015

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  Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): KL : Comment: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!) date.  They worry that passionate kissing might encourage sex.  They admit to previously sleeping with guys on first dates, but “are […]

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