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The Only Guys Who Will Commit Before Sex Are The Ones You Reject

February 20th, 2014

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Tweet Somebody asked me recently why dating advice is so inconsistent. I told them that it was because most dating advice lacks objectivity. I’ve said this before. Today this popped up in my Twitter stream. Now, I’ve spoken of my regard for Evan in the past. He’s got more passion and authenticity than most folks [...]

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Here’s When First Date Sex Is A Mistake

January 30th, 2014

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Tweet Name: B Comment: Two questions.. How do I prevent myself from getting attached too fast, and do men care about their partner’s professional success? A 45 yo recently contacted me online, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks, which he initiated. We were both overwhelmed with work, hence [...]

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How Does She Get Men To Stop Wanting To Have Sex With Her?

January 8th, 2014

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Tweet Name: Brittany Question: My question is: how do I get men to stop objectifying me?  I do not dress provocatively nor do I talk about sex. I give no indication that I’m looking for a sexual relationship yet every man I meet just seems to be blatantly after sex and fade when they don’t [...]

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The Assumptions We Make That Keep Us Single

October 21st, 2013

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Tweet A conversation with a friend today made me realize that there are assumptions that we sometimes make in the dating process that ultimately become our undoing. Here are some examples: 1. Picking an expensive restaurant or bar at which to meet that cute doctor you met on OKCupid.-  Just because someone works in a  [...]

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The Quickie – The Things Men Do/Say Just To Get Laid

October 4th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Diane Comment: I met this guy online a while ago, and at this point enough stuff has happened that I’ll just provide a list of things that I like and things that worry me. Things I like: – he lives 2 hours away, but offered to drive up to take me out to [...]

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Biggest Dating WTF: Why Did They Act So Into Me & Then Fade?

September 17th, 2013

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Tweet Name: LH : Comment: Hello, In a real attempt to try the online dating thing, I talked to this guy for a month before we finally met and we hit off like we knew each other. He was super respectful and kind. It was a great first date.  We planned a second date again [...]

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How Can He Find Women Who Want To Have Sex By The 2nd Date?

July 24th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Jeff Comment: Moxie, the way you write about men almost brings a tear to my eye.  It’s rare, and quite sexy, to see a women who just gets it about men, and in a non-derogatory manner. I have recently discovered that I no longer wish to play the waiting game for sex with [...]

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If He Blows You Off For Sleeping With Him, You Didn’t Want Him Anyway

June 19th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Lindsey Comment: Hi, So I met this guy a couple weeks ago through online dating. We emailed a little bit and we hit it off pretty well, so we exchanged numbers and started texting. We talked constantly about anything and everything. We both have the same schedule working graveyard shifts, and so we [...]

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Is It Now Okay To Talk About Sex On Dates?

June 5th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Armand Comment: When a woman asks a question like, so when was the last time you had sex, what’s she trying to do? It’s happened to me twice this year. One was a friend I met online in January. We dated twice. She is on again off again with her boyfriend. She pulled [...]

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How Do You Treat Someone Like An Option?

June 4th, 2013

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Tweet Name: Leigh Comment: I met Patrick two weeks ago.  We’ve had one date and a handful of home visits since then.  We have not had sex yet, but plenty of heavy petting and since reading your article “Either F*ck Them or Don’t” I’ve come to the realization I need to get over myself and [...]

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