Tag Archives: first date sex

Just Because You Had Sex With Them Doesn’t Mean They Owe You Anything

May 25th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): CH Comment: I met a marine off this website called Plenty of Fish. We texted for a couple of weeks and then met in person. We connected very well so i thought. The mistake i made on my end is i slept with him that night. What confuses […]

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Dating Red Flag 101: Beware The Oversharer

May 21st, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Justin Comment: Having been divorced for a year I recently met a woman online who was in the process of getting divorced.  We really connected well online and within a few days she initiated a meeting in person. Meeting face to face was even better and I got […]

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It’s Okay To Be Hurt If He Blows You off After Sex

May 20th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Fallinaa Comment: Dear Moxie, I really like your blog and always find useful insights from you and the commentators here. I joined a cycling group a couple months ago and participated in their training program (ride on every Saturday). A couple rides later, a guy started to approach […]

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The Most Obnoxious Things People Do On First Dates

May 15th, 2014

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A reader emailed me and suggested that I write up a list of the most annoying things people do on first dates. Some of these are gender specific, so gird your loins. Here goes: 1. Selecting a first date spot that is inconvenient to you, but not them – The best way to avoid this […]

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Guys Aren’t Always Trying Desperately To Get In Your Pants

May 1st, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Still online Comment: At my age (64) and dating men mainly in their later 60’s and 70’s I would have thought that they wouldn’t be popping blue pills before dinner was over…………Someone in their mid 70’s who expects and trys to have sex on the first date eliminates […]

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The Only Guys Who Will Commit Before Sex Are The Ones You Reject

February 20th, 2014

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Somebody asked me recently why dating advice is so inconsistent. I told them that it was because most dating advice lacks objectivity. I’ve said this before. Today this popped up in my Twitter stream. Now, I’ve spoken of my regard for Evan in the past. He’s got more passion and authenticity than most folks in […]

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Here’s When First Date Sex Is A Mistake

January 30th, 2014

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Name: B Comment: Two questions.. How do I prevent myself from getting attached too fast, and do men care about their partner’s professional success? A 45 yo recently contacted me online, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks, which he initiated. We were both overwhelmed with work, hence the […]

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How Does She Get Men To Stop Wanting To Have Sex With Her?

January 8th, 2014

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Name: Brittany Question: My question is: how do I get men to stop objectifying me?  I do not dress provocatively nor do I talk about sex. I give no indication that I’m looking for a sexual relationship yet every man I meet just seems to be blatantly after sex and fade when they don’t get […]

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The Assumptions We Make That Keep Us Single

October 21st, 2013

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A conversation with a friend today made me realize that there are assumptions that we sometimes make in the dating process that ultimately become our undoing. Here are some examples: 1. Picking an expensive restaurant or bar at which to meet that cute doctor you met on OKCupid.-  Just because someone works in a  field […]

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The Quickie – The Things Men Do/Say Just To Get Laid

October 4th, 2013

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Name: Diane Comment: I met this guy online a while ago, and at this point enough stuff has happened that I’ll just provide a list of things that I like and things that worry me. Things I like: – he lives 2 hours away, but offered to drive up to take me out to dinner […]

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