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Another BIG Reason You Shouldn’t Send Messages On a Dating Site

February 15th, 2015

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Newgirlontheblock Comment: Dear ATWYS, I have never used online dating because in my mind it was something that would just happen on its own. Realizing that this isn’t exactly a reality I am looking into online dating, but have no idea which site is right for me. I […]

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Do You Trade Sex For Exclusivity?

November 24th, 2014

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Name: D State: CO Age: 43 Comment: I’ve been seeing a woman (let’s call her Jean) for the past month or so. We get together 2-3 times per week, and we’ve been having sex since our third date. I think there’s long-term potential, but I’m not ready to be exclusive yet. In the meantime, I’ve […]

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The Finances of Dating – Who Spends More? #atwys

August 21st, 2014

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From now until further notice, I’m mostly going to be re-posting popular posts from the past. If a letter comes with a particularly interesting angle, I will post it and write a response. I need a break. Enjoy! Also, FYI…we’re doing some back end maintenance. If the site goes down, it’s due to that. This […]

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Should He Ask Her To Lose Weight So He Can Date Her?

May 16th, 2014

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I have a question for the ladies on this site. I have recently met a girl online and after a week or two of online chatting and sms texting we decided to meet.  Based purely on how much we had in common, and I thought she was a great girl.  When I met her I […]

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Yes, You Can Lie About Your Age/Height In Your OKCupid Profile

August 8th, 2013

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Name: Jules Comment: Hi there, I recently turned 38 and am thinking about getting back on Match. I’m considering listing my age as 35 on my profile to give myself more of chance to be noticed when guys do a search. But I would disclose my real age in the About Me section and explain […]

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The Various Types of Online Dating Time Wasters

July 28th, 2013

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Name: Elle Comment: Hi Moxie! First, I’d just like to say how much I enjoy your writing. I may not agree with every single point, but your rational, honest approach to dating is refreshing and inspiring. So, a bit about me. The last time I had an OKCupid profile I was in college. The profile […]

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Why Dating & Commuting Don’t Mix

January 14th, 2013

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Name: Phil Age: 26 Question: Hello, I’m an attractive mid-20 year old male from a large east coast city. Last summer, amidst the beginnings of the end of the recession, I took a promotion two steps above my previous position. However, in doing so, I had to move to the middle of nowhere for a […]

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How Do You Say Thanks, But No Thanks?

December 11th, 2011

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Name: Back in the Game State: NY Age: 37 Comment: I’ve been divorced for almost a year and decided to try online dating. Out of the 20 or so messages I receive a week at least 50% are from men that are nowhere close to my specified preference. I  get several messages from men of […]

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