Tag Archives: online dating

How Not To Fed Up With Tinder & OKCupid

September 14th, 2017

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  Question: Hi moxie Texting. Sigh. I was all set up to go on a date next week with a guy I met on ok Cupid. He set me some messages and I replied fairly quickly and we were exchanging messages like they were texts. Nothing crazy just the usual banter. I said something about […]

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Why Doesn’t Online Dating Work For Him?

September 11th, 2017

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Name: Akira I’m a straight guy living in LA and I’ve been on and off Okcupid and other dating apps for the better part of four years. I can’t say I’ve ever had a single ‘long term’ relationship from it at all. I’ve had many dates over the years and have managed to have a […]

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I’m Tired of Messaging. How Come Nobody Wants To Meet Anymore?

August 22nd, 2017

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On my way to the gym I unmatched all six matches in my Tinder inbox. Then I went to OKCupid and hid my profile. In the past two weeks I’ve made five matches on Tinder and one on OKCupid. Not one of them resulted in an offline date. Every single one of them faded. To […]

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Don’t Fall For OKCupid’s Latest Scam

August 9th, 2017

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Name: AC : Question: Yesterday when I logged into my Okcupid account, there was a notice from the site administrators stating they have removed the “Who’s Viewed Me” section from the site.  While I don’t remember the exact wording, their reasoning was along the lines of “now only the users who really want to contact […]

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Dating When You Feel Less Than

August 7th, 2017

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I hate being unmatched on Tinder. Hate it.  You get the little push notification of a mutual match, you swipe on it to get to your inbox annnnddd….they’re gone.  The only worse feeling is getting the match notification, giving it a few minutes to allow them the time to swipe through your photos and unmatch […]

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The Sneaky Way Men Get Casual Sex

July 9th, 2017

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Name: Alexis Age: 43 State: CA Question: I recently had a blind date that went well with a lot of good conversation, laughs and both of us stating a desire to see each other again. And yes, he told me he was very attracted to me physically and we kissed and were a bit affectionate […]

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Are Separated Men Just Looking For Sex?

June 28th, 2017

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Name: Liv Question: I’m in my 40s and have done some online dating with limited success. I tend to stop communicating when I see red flags. I wonder if this is one: I’ve corresponded about 3x with a guy, late 40s separated. We’ve had a bit of a lengthy conversation about interests, passions and background. […]

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Is His Height Really a Dealbreaker?

June 25th, 2017

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New post on Women on Top! Name: Roy Comment: Dear moxie and those who comment frequently, Whats a short guy to do? So here’s the deal, I’m 27 and independent. I am good-looking and look very young for my  age. I am a sharp dresser and funny and charming, people in general adore me. I […]

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What Is Your OKCupid, Tinder & Bumble Match Rate?

June 15th, 2017

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Speaking of men and relationships, I still have my OKCupid profile up, but I foresee it being disabled by the end of the week. The rejection is doing a job on my psyche.  I do not get one response to the emails I send out. Not one. But then, I respond to literally zero of […]

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Is Dating Broken?

May 22nd, 2017

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I decided last night that we’d no longer organize speeddating events. Ever since Meetup updated their policy and disavowed speeddating events, filling them has been a struggle, never more so than over the last few months.  As I said last week to another woman who organizes speeddating events who has also complained of a slow-down, […]

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