Tag Archives: rejection

Is He a Douche or Is She Being Petty?

March 13th, 2018

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  Name: Tired of games : Question: I’m a 45 year-old single man and I’ve always had decent success meeting women, online and offline. However, over the past few months a similar situation occurred with three different women, and I’d like to know if my actions and expectations were unreasonable. Here’s the most recent scenario: […]

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Do You Ghost Or Tell The Truth?

December 17th, 2017

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Let’s say someone isn’t interested after you meet in real life. What’s the best way to communicate that without hurting feelings? I’ve gone dark because I wasn’t interested and I didn’t know how to tell her. I bought her lunch and we didn’t sleep together…but I knew there wouldn’t be another date. – howshoulditbe As […]

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Do Some Daters Get Off On Rejecting People?

April 20th, 2016

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Name: Jacob : Question: I just happened to come across your site by chance. My Question is short is about dealing with rejection and just what makes someone respond the way they do. For example. on okcupid, or even sending a photo to someone blindly on craiglist. recently I got a reply from someone I […]

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If They Say They Don’t Want To Date You, Believe Them

August 4th, 2015

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Will : Comment: I have a question regarding Facebook interaction with exes or people you have dated. This woman and I dated for a few months this past year. We had known each other for a year prior to dating.  Our last date we had a good time […]

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How To Reject Someone Without Being A Douche

July 22nd, 2015

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Evan : Comment: I’m recently divorced and new to online dating. One area where I always hit a snag is how to tell a woman I don’t see a romantic future with her. Either I explain that there was a lack of chemistry or I do not follow […]

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Why Do So Many Guys Flake After One Date?

March 15th, 2015

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Name: Maria Age: 35 City: Brooklyn State: NY Comment: Hi, I am wondering if what happens to me is “normal” in the dating world here in NYC.  I am 35, on OKC and I get asked out a lot.  I meet an average of 3 guys per week, which some would consider lucky.  I think […]

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How Quickly Do You Know If You Want To Sleep With Someone? #atwys

September 28th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Sylvia : Comment: A 47yo guy messaged me on OKC, we exchanged a few messages, and we’ve gone out three times. He’s cute–in a dorky sweet sort of way–smart, a bit more earnest than I usually go, for but after the last a-hole I dated for 2 years […]

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Saying No Is Not The Beginning Of A Negotiation #Yesallwomen

May 26th, 2014

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Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): PK Comment: Hi, I really like this girl (19yrs). She is a bartender in a local pub. I tried asking her out, but she rejected me because she has a boyfriend. Well, I am not kind of a guy, who gives up quickly. I don’t generally meet the […]

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Are People Rejecting You Because Your About Me Summary Is a Bore?

February 23rd, 2014

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Name: Jeff : Comment: I’ve found myself in a bit of a pickle here. Recently I came across an absolutely amazing young women through online dating. After 24 hours of signing on and walking away I finally made contact. In my message I was very polite, making sure to point out a few (of MANY) […]

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Sometimes People Just Say Things To Be Polite Or Lose Interest

February 13th, 2014

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Name: Lina : Comment: Hi, I know this guy from my previous job. He was working with my company and I had to work with him almost on daily basis. 4-5 months a go he started talking about his and my personal life during our work calls and he also invited me to his house […]

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