Tag Archives: should women ask men out

Sometimes They’re Not Flirting They’re Just Being Friendly

January 27th, 2014

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Name: GL Comment: I recently became ‘mates’ if you will with a guy 7 years younger than me at work. He pretty much gave me his number straight away  saying if I ever wanted to hang for a drink to give him a holler. Ok, so I did just that! Organized when we would both […]

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If He’s Interested, He’ll Ask You Out

October 20th, 2013

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Name: Maryann Comment: Im curious if you think its always best to wait for a man to make the first move.  Ive always taken the view that a man who is interested will make his interest known, and if he doesnt he probably just isnt into you.  When I have attempted to pursue guys in […]

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READER RANT – Enough With The Alpha/Beta Man Talk

December 20th, 2012

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Stop the whole alpha beta talk. It’s gibberish. The most dominant men in some ways are also submissive and passive in other ways. Many are insecure which makes them aggressive or dominant, because without the control, their insecurity would be laid bare. Some hide it better than others. The whole alpha beta crap applies to […]

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Even If He Pays For Everything, What Does That Prove?

November 28th, 2012

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Even though my lower jaw is throbbing because apparently I’m 14 with braces and my teeth are shifting, I figured I’d cause myself more angst by making these comments into a post. Who pays? Yay! Hey guys – just curious – how much / how often do you want a woman to pay for dates […]

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How Come Guys She Meets Online Fade So Quickly?

November 14th, 2012

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Name: Petra Age: 37 State: Question: Here’s the typical exchange I’m encountering on dating sites.  A man sends a first message along the lines of: – How are you? – How is your week/day going? – How are you finding the site? Then I review their profile, answer their question and ask a question based […]

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Top 10 Ways To Avoid Getting Stood Up or Blown Off On A First Date

October 24th, 2012

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A profile review client emailed me the other day. She and a man from OKCupid had been trading emails and made plans to meet on Sunday night. She showed up at the assigned location and waited. And waited. Her date never showed up. She sent him a text message telling him she arrived and the […]

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Just Say No To Asking Him Out

September 12th, 2012

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Part of an article I recently wrote for Your Tango’s Expert series contained 5 pieces of advice that women should never take at face value when they hear it from their girlfriends. One point has actually been getting some coverage in the dating blogosphere of late. That would be the “controversy” over whether or not […]

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Guys Don’t Want to Date “One of The Guys”

February 20th, 2012

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Name: Lucy State: New York Age: 42 Comment: Hi there Moxie! I was recently introduced to a man by a mutual friend. We are both triathletes so I was interested in meeting him. The guy and I met up for a bike ride. He did mention he was inviting a couple of his friends along. […]

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How Do You Know What Your Dating League Is?

October 8th, 2011

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Name: AP Age: 38 Story: I haven’t actually seen this covered in your blog, but how do you discern “leagues”? As a woman, how do you determine who is and who isn’t in your league? I’m attractive & very fit by most people’s standards, do well professionally, extroverted/sociable, but I am also in my late […]

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Should Women Make The First Move?

September 8th, 2011

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Name: Toni Age: 39 Comment: Should women ask men out?  I was raised very traditional and have actually asked 2 men out in my whole life. There is this guy at work and we went from smiling at one another, to saying hi.  Then I introduced myself, stating that hey we always say hi but […]

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